>I didn’t select "reply with a quote" before my first post, I
>thought I edited it, sorry....I was replying to this below.
>She said thin will never be perceived as a character flaw, but
>I read a lot of negative comments about the celebrities in
>those pictures.
>
What I meant was a fat person will be judged as having some flaw in his or her character, i.e., you are fat because you are...
...weak
...lazy
...apathetic, don't care about your appearance
...apathetic about your diet
...not a good person
...selfish (who do they think they are taking up so much space?)
...(fill in the blank)
Yes, some very negative things were said about the thin celebrities, but they are not thin because they are weak and lazy, etc. The negative comments were not made about their character, but about their physical appearance. Which is not the same as saying a person's weight is a reflection of their inner character.
I hope I expressed myself well and clearly. I do not want to be perceived as thin-bashing and fat-bashing. I do believe however, that our society has taught women, as a whole, to hate our bodies - no matter WHAT they look like, to be ahamed of our bodies, and to be continually dissatisfied with them.
Boobs too small, boobs too big. The belly that carried around a baby is now too saggy. Legs too long, legs too short. Nose too big, too wide, too anything. Droopy eyes, cellulite, bunions from cramming out feet into shoes that don't fit - all in the name of beauty.
What the hell our we doing to ourselves???? What are we doing to each other?
If you have found complete peace and saticfaction with your body, when you can say, "I am good enough. I am content with myself, I am proud of myself. I like the way I look," you are one lucky woman, and I applaud you. I look up to you.
Unfortunately, I am not that woman yet.
Oops! Didn't mean to rant for so long!