I do not think there is a cultural issue. I am opened to be prooven wrong if there is any issue.
Have you got fact for making such statement above. Repeatedly!!! When? and for what? I have sent a message once to user debinmin and aqua. so repeatedly sound an exaggeration to me!Repeatedly using angry reactions to member posts is ALSO a form of harassment and intimidation
FitSaxe, I'm not great with technology, but I believe Lady Vol Fan is referring to the emojis that one can put at the bottom of another's comment (the happy, sad, angry, etc. faces). And Kellyro isn't trying to cause conflict... she was trying to be helpful by looking for a reason that you're misunderstanding people's comments. Nobody has to prove anybody wrong, and I haven't seen any comments that indicate that anybody that's been commenting on your posts have an ego position. Please tell us what's wrong - maybe somebody can help. I don't know if you realize it, but you're making things worse. Nobody is trying to hurt you, so it's very confusing as to why you're so upset. This is normally a friendly forum, and the comments I've read from you seem one-sided in being not friendly. Is there anything we can do to help you feel better? You're going to hurt someone's feelings if you continue, and there's no need for that. This is a safe place for many of us, so I'm sorry you're not feeling that, but I really think you're misunderstanding something, and if we could clear that up... there would be peace on this site, which would benefit everybody, which includes you. You are hurting yourself by lashing out at others. I don't want to see anybody hurting. Is there anything we can do that would help you to understand that people on here do not mean you any harm? They just want peace, as I'm sure you do as well.
ok this below here in bleu is what I would qualify as being out of order! Why would someone state willing to read review coming from me bloc me. I am struggling to make sense in such attitude. That is all I have to say.
Since she is into transparency, let show my bullying messages!!!! We know who is the real bully!
But there's no bullying in those messages. Both ladies are making choices that work for them. One... to leave the site (which I hope she doesn't do) and the other to "ignore", which is a valid choice if she's feeling uncomfortable. You should also do what feels comfortable for you to keep your peace. If you choose to avoid something by blocking or "ignoring" it is because it's good for YOU, right? It's not intended to hurt others. These ladies making choices that are best for them is not an attack on you - it's not bullying. Have you thought about what you yourself need to be happier on this site? Stop worrying about others - you're reading too much into it. Figure out what YOU need. That's all they are doing... they are figuring out what THEY need. You're a Cathlete, so you know that fitness is not the only thing we need to worry about to stay healthy. We need to take care of other aspects of our health too - including mental health. When people decide to "ignore" or block... that's what they are doing - they are maintaining a calm, peaceful life. It's not an assault on others. It is their strength showing - their ability to set and maintain boundaries. It's a good thing. You need to find what will make you feel calm and at peace too. We all deserve to be in control of our own happiness, don't you think?ok this below here in bleu is what I would qualify as being out of order! Why would someone state willing to read review coming from me bloc me. I am struggling to make sense in such attitude. That is all I have to say.
I did not send any more message. In fact I have not got any intention whatsoever to send her any message. Please do not make things up!
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You're not happy right now, but only you have the power to fix that. If you have time today, try doing something for yourself that makes you feel good - for me... that's a bubblebath and a piece of dark chocolate (okay, I'll be honest... maybe a glass of red wine is involved too lol). Do something for yourself that helps you feel good about yourself. When we take care of ourselves, we're happier and we can see things in a more positive light.
@Braille Thank you. trying to help and understand is a kind approach. I am grateful. They can block me, they have done it in the past. i have blocked some user because of bullying in the past. Some here know what I am talking about and some have sent me private messages because they did not have the courage to face them openly. I am talking facts.But there's no bullying in those messages. Both ladies are making choices that work for them. One... to leave the site (which I hope she doesn't do) and the other to "ignore", which is a valid choice if she's feeling uncomfortable. You should also do what feels comfortable for you to keep your peace. If you choose to avoid something by blocking or "ignoring" it is because it's good for YOU, right? It's not intended to hurt others. These ladies making choices that are best for them is not an attack on you - it's not bullying. Have you thought about what you yourself need to be happier on this site? Stop worrying about others - you're reading too much into it. Figure out what YOU need. That's all they are doing... they are figuring out what THEY need. You're a Cathlete, so you know that fitness is not the only thing we need to worry about to stay healthy. We need to take care of other aspects of our health too - including mental health. When people decide to "ignore" or block... that's what they are doing - they are maintaining a calm, peaceful life. It's not an assault on others. It is their strength showing - their ability to set and maintain boundaries. It's a good thing. You need to find what will make you feel calm and at peace too. We all deserve to be in control of our own happiness, don't you think?
.Yes a glass of pure neighbours wine.... France is also what I enjoy
I am not going anywhere, I have not done anything wrong. There is no bullying from me. These ladies and their associate will strike for sure. @Braille You have not been around long enough to fully acknowledge the way they operate.But there's no bullying in those messages. Both ladies are making choices that work for them. One... to leave the site (which I hope she doesn't do) and the other to "ignore", which is a valid choice if she's feeling uncomfortable. You should also do what feels comfortable for you to keep your peace. If you choose to avoid something by blocking or "ignoring" it is because it's good for YOU, right? It's not intended to hurt others. These ladies making choices that are best for them is not an attack on you - it's not bullying. Have you thought about what you yourself need to be happier on this site? Stop worrying about others - you're reading too much into it. Figure out what YOU need. That's all they are doing... they are figuring out what THEY need. You're a Cathlete, so you know that fitness is not the only thing we need to worry about to stay healthy. We need to take care of other aspects of our health too - including mental health. When people decide to "ignore" or block... that's what they are doing - they are maintaining a calm, peaceful life. It's not an assault on others. It is their strength showing - their ability to set and maintain boundaries. It's a good thing. You need to find what will make you feel calm and at peace too. We all deserve to be in control of our own happiness, don't you think?
I have a better solution for one of those tree ladies involved in this drama as far as transparency is concerned. instead of ignore or block cause this seems difficult to stick to, just recover one of her other profile
. For my peace, I am sticking to what i like, supporting each other , sharing knowledge in a respectful civil manner and staying out of the "relentless-whinging lot!"
what she said!
+1, or is it +2?
I relate!
I’d love it! Best case scenario for me!
Oh well
Same!! Would also love a slow and heavy upper body split!
That sounds great!!
Cathe is teaching an upper body splits-HEAVY on live.
