ATTN: Bichon Owners & My Day Job
What an amazing post! It's been such a kick to sit here and read what we all do. I'm struck by the fact that there are quite a few women in our group working in traditionally male professions -- You Go Girls!
I hope Cathe reads this thread, as it's a real testament to how really universal her message of wellness, strength and the power of taking care of yourself really is. We are quite the sister (and brother) hood!
As for me, I am an attorney like Marlene, and a SAHM (tough balancing act). I worked as a civil trial lawyer for a big firm for about 7 years, then after the birth of my first son I moved to a corporate in-house job at a large telecommunications company you might recognize from our big blue globe.
I took five years off after my second son was born and threw all of my "professional energy" into the PTA (so much so that there were times I was working a 60 hour week at my volunteer "job"!
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Then a girlfriend and I started a clothing business, thinking it would be a nice little part-time thing, and it mushroomed into a late nights and every weekend job, so we sold that (I think we made $14) in 1996.
So I found myself at loose ends. My little guy was starting 1st grade and I was really burned out on the politics of PTA board & committee work. I wanted to spend time in the boys' classrooms but found that, aside from that, I felt restless and had TOO much free time -- I was definitely in that danger zone where you start SHOPPING (furniture, clothes, exotic groceries) as an activity. Ka-ching ka-ching. I have decided that I am one of those personality types who really does need to be at least moderately busy -- give me too much freedom and I'll spend every dime I have in an attempt to create some kind of "project" for myself!
Then, as my mother likes to say, God dropped an anvil on my head. About two months after we sold the business I got a call from my old boss at Big Blue Globe looking to see if I wanted to do some part-time work. I worked out this great deal with my former employer that I still have. I work from home in a "virtual office" as a contractor-attorney with one and only one client -- Big Blue Globe. I provide legal counsel on telecommunications contracting and regulatory law to commercial sales and government sales clients in nine states, and in theory I work 20 - 25 hours per week. Like many of you, I find that the hours I'm "supposed to work" is often a myth.
As a matter of fact, I wish I had a nickel for every time I've taken a conference call from my cell phone while waiting in a carpool line -- or, worse yet, with my van full of little boys who, bless their hearts, sit quietly like little angels when Mrs. Shapiro waives her cell phone at them with that special maniacal look on her face... ;-)
I'm so glad I found Cathe and through her this Forum -- y'all are the best!
Kathy S.
(Holder of the Two Best Full-Time Jobs in the World: Mother of Alex (14), Evan (11), and Eddie the Bichon (4), Wife of Kenny (45))
P.S. Any other Bichon owners out there in Catheland?? I love my furball!