RE: Another perspective
I see both sides of this issue, I really do, and Vrinda, you never ramble on. Your posts are always so helpful and thorough, thoughtful and thought provoking. And your English is superb -- better than mine!!
My mom was an Italian immigrant. She came to this country as a small child, unable to speak a single word of English. She was made fun of and ridiculed for her language, her pierced ears, her ethnic foods, etc. Her teachers didn't know how to pronounce her name so they gave her a new one. She literally learned English by being thrown into the fire -- she learned it by attending American schools. And no, they didn't have an English as a second language program -- she had to sit through classes with English only speaking teachers and it was a sink or swim situation.
My grandparents were in their 20's when they immigrated. My grandfather spoke English with a heavy, broken accent and was pretty hard to understand, but my poor grandmother never did learn it. She was wonderful and kind, and the hardest working person I know, and the thought of her being the subject of ridicule brings tears to my eyes. She came from an era where the education of women, especially in Italy, wasn't deemed necessary, so she couldn't read or write in any language, but she was the most intelligent woman I ever knew in so many ways.
I guess my point is that we need to extend a little kindness, grace and patience to each other. Yes, it's frustrating when you're trying to communicate with someone who doesn't know the language, especially when you're trying to get help and you just can't understand each other. Maybe it's because we all feel so much pressure these days -- we work too hard, we don't earn enough money, the war, etc and so on -- but maybe we need to step back and take a deep breath and just try a little harder to put ourselves in their shoes. I agree that it's important to learn the language of the country you want to live in, but it's not an easy thing, and trying to fit classes in when you're working full-time must be so hard.
Now look who's rambling.
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