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Cathlete
Lori,
a. Children are influenced by the acts and behaviour of parents a lot more than their words, so your children are already imbibing that mommy is vegetarian. That isnt the same as active lobbying to influence children. It is akin to either parent belonging to different faiths and deciding to let their children make up their own minds, in their own time on religion. They answer questions but they dont make it seem necessary to make a choice and dont pressurize.
b. I have known of children/people giving up animal products from the general idea / using their minds to connect the dots, without reading literature or seeing video footage. People can turn vegetarian before becoming fully aware of exactly how cruel the process is. If this happens, your husband will be upset...but he will learn in time to deal with it.
If they ask to see footage, in your shoes I would ask them to wait until they are older. I would explain that visuals can be disturbing and I would want them to be old enough to see them with a mature mind. By calling visuals disturning you arent really saying anything new to perturb them - children can connect why something like slaughter will seem disturbing without it being spelt out to them.
If they ask questions about cruelty to animals, I would only provide the least gory and least detailed responses possible. When they learn to find answers with independant enquiry and research to their questions (not just this one) they will discover more for themselves. Or perhaps when they turn into young adults would be the right time to explain in detail.
Keep in mind I am not a mom. Also, vegetarians abound in my society, so I may not comprehend just how tough this may be for your husband. I may be very wrong in my approach!
a. Children are influenced by the acts and behaviour of parents a lot more than their words, so your children are already imbibing that mommy is vegetarian. That isnt the same as active lobbying to influence children. It is akin to either parent belonging to different faiths and deciding to let their children make up their own minds, in their own time on religion. They answer questions but they dont make it seem necessary to make a choice and dont pressurize.
b. I have known of children/people giving up animal products from the general idea / using their minds to connect the dots, without reading literature or seeing video footage. People can turn vegetarian before becoming fully aware of exactly how cruel the process is. If this happens, your husband will be upset...but he will learn in time to deal with it.
If they ask to see footage, in your shoes I would ask them to wait until they are older. I would explain that visuals can be disturbing and I would want them to be old enough to see them with a mature mind. By calling visuals disturning you arent really saying anything new to perturb them - children can connect why something like slaughter will seem disturbing without it being spelt out to them.
If they ask questions about cruelty to animals, I would only provide the least gory and least detailed responses possible. When they learn to find answers with independant enquiry and research to their questions (not just this one) they will discover more for themselves. Or perhaps when they turn into young adults would be the right time to explain in detail.
Keep in mind I am not a mom. Also, vegetarians abound in my society, so I may not comprehend just how tough this may be for your husband. I may be very wrong in my approach!
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