ellesan
Cathlete
Aahhh...family vacations...
I recently went on vacation with my husband's family. The first night for dinner our niece (resident of vacation town) said she had a surprise for us for dinner at a nice restaurant. We had not talked about plans for dinner, but I found out that others in the group were in on it. I had told my husband to inform his family that we were on a budget for the vacation and needed to watch it.
I did not like the place, and wanted to leave as soon as we got there, but trying to be respectful, I stayed. I looked at the menu, $40 per person. For me, if someone invites me to that kind of a restaurant without discussing $ or budget, etc. then they should pay.
Afterwards, the niece and SIL paid for only their own and we were left to pay the $150 bill for the three of us. I was livid. I would NEVER do that to someone. Our budget was about $80 a DAY for food. My husband doesn't think it quaifies as "rude." I think it was extremely rude and insensitive...am I overreacting? What would you do?
I recently went on vacation with my husband's family. The first night for dinner our niece (resident of vacation town) said she had a surprise for us for dinner at a nice restaurant. We had not talked about plans for dinner, but I found out that others in the group were in on it. I had told my husband to inform his family that we were on a budget for the vacation and needed to watch it.
I did not like the place, and wanted to leave as soon as we got there, but trying to be respectful, I stayed. I looked at the menu, $40 per person. For me, if someone invites me to that kind of a restaurant without discussing $ or budget, etc. then they should pay.
Afterwards, the niece and SIL paid for only their own and we were left to pay the $150 bill for the three of us. I was livid. I would NEVER do that to someone. Our budget was about $80 a DAY for food. My husband doesn't think it quaifies as "rude." I think it was extremely rude and insensitive...am I overreacting? What would you do?