I just got my DVD's today and a response from Nancy... She sais this ....No worries. We have record of your preorder, with your updated address. All preorders are filed in a separate system, not the shopcathe system, that is why you cannot view your order online. However, you won't receive a shipping notification either because you chose USPS First Class Mail and there is no tracking system for postal orders.
So maybe that's what happen...But I'm happy..