My husband and I have been married for 6 years and it seems he's changing in ways I don't feel comfortable with. I've tried talking to him about it on multiple occasions but he reverts right back. I posted some time ago about my husband ordering porn from our cable station behind my back even though he knows I don't approve and never have. He's still doing it and then will deny it! He also is always following me around the house talking explicitly to me that I feel is very derogatory. He says he's joking and that any wife would wish their husband wanted them this much. I don't think it's me he wants. He's by nature a joker, a trait of him I've always loved but this kind of joking makes me nauseated and distances me even more. I'm a child of sexual abuse and he knows this. I feel our marriage is seriously being affected by this.