Hi girlfriend!
I will say you have the same problem I did! First, you must be eating every 2-3 hours...PLAN for it! You know the saying, "If you fail to plan, you plan to fail"??? Well, with clean eating, it is rule #1.
One recommendation I will say is to purchase an Eat Clean Diet Book from Tosca Reno, and maybe a few Eating Clean magazines. They will help stimulate your ideas for snacks and meals. Eating 6 times a day is difficult, some meals are like mini-meals, or snacks so to speak. I like to keep snack size ziploc baggies filled with one serving each of nuts, so I don't go overboard and eat 500 nuts in one snack. Toss several of these baggies in your car, along with shakers filled with a scoop of protein powder (my fav is BSN lean protein), whole wheat crackers, homemade trail mix etc. I always always carry fresh fruit in my purse now...usually is 2 apples, but sometimes it is oranges or plums.
This way you are wanting to eat the paint off the wall when you walk through the door at night. Your body should never be that hungry, put your food on a SLOOOW drip into your body...you must learn about portion sizes and clean food.
One of my newest and BEST tricks - as soon as we get home from school, I make all of us a faux - milkshake with protein powder. I mix it up and let the kids dictate flavor. One of my favorites is a german chocolate cake milkshake - use a scoop of BSN chocolate coconut candy bar protein, water, 1/2 spoon of RAW virgin coconut oil, and a sprinkle of organic unsweetened coconut....oh my gosh.... absolutely the bomb!
Another great mixture is vanilla BSN protein powder, coconut oil, coconut, and Pineapple -- tastes like a pinacoloda...INSANE!!
I find that this "snack" at this time really helps to prevent my eating dinner as I make it, and it curbs my appetite during and AFTER dinner.
After dinner, I have replaced my usually sweet snack with tea...I know it sounds like an unequal swap, but.... there is something very tranquil and peaceful about looking forward to that tea. My fav here is HONEY GINSENG Green Tea by The Republic of Tea...and I add a spoonful of honey to sweeten it...love love love!!!
I go to bed early, around 8:30pm...so usually I don't deal with munchies at night. But, a terrific snack at night is a half bowl of oatmeal with a half scoop of protein powder...or just mix up another protein shake. Remember it is good to go to bed without a big glob of food laying in your belly.
You will find what works best for you. But don't let your body get ravenously hungry...you are setting yourself up for failure.
I would also recommend signing up on a fitness blog...or cathe's forums...somewhere you are accountable for your diet. I like to check in somewhere to keep myself on track. Keeping a journal is also a great thing...you will be shocked at how much you are eating and when...it is a hard habit to get into but well worth the investment of time and energy.
I have actually been taking pictures of some of my meals and posting them on my facebook page...I talk about my workouts, etc there. Tosca Reno's forums are another great resource.
Remember, Rome was not built overnight...you must be patient with yourself and enjoy the journey!!! If you have weight to lose of just wanting to firm up, I highly recommend taking a before pic of yourself and hanging it in your pantry...along with some pics cut out of mags of women's bodies you want...great great inspiration!
Also, you must be positive!!! Know that your body will change and invision it doing so!
I hope that helps a bit!
xx, Denise