Kathryn, read this with an open mind--I'm not attacking...
Kathryn,
I would like to ask you to go back & re-read what I said. I never said those that can't jump are beginner/intermediate exercisers. In fact, I said I can't do the jumping because of back injury issues. I also said, as you have quoted in your post to me, you can't please all people all the time.
If you take that to mean I'm saying that because you chose to modify that you are a beginner/intermediate exerciser, I'm sorry but that's not what I meant. Word for word, it says some people may choose not to try (modifications) & some may try but not like Cathe's style at all (with or without modifications). In fact, I know plenty of people that don't like her style. That's cool, too. But don't accuse me of saying "if you're not an advanced exerciser too bad" (in the post from CJ5--not your's). I never said that.
I also never said having background modifiers would "destroy" her tapes. In fact what I said was that I didn't think they would detract (from) or add value to her tapes. I was simply pointing out that Cathe does provide information on modifications on ALL her tapes. She just doesn't actually have someone in the background doing it. Would I stop buying her tapes if she put someone in? No. Would it make me buy more? No.
So, again, I wasn't out to start a flame war. I tried to stay out of this in this manner by e-mailing CJ5 privately, but apparently CJ5 had other ideas by saying that Barbara edited when she didn't. Also since she didn't seem to remember with whom she was speaking (one of the problems with only being able to see the exact post you hit reply on); she said she took the claws out on Donna but Donna hadn't even posted until after she took them out on me. Poor Donna is probably sitting there shaking her head wondering what CJ5 was talking about, as Barbara said in her response. So, I assumed it was my e-mail to her that she was referring because I started my e-mail to her that I had started to post but deleted it because I didn't want to start a flame war (I didn't think it necessary to post that part of the e-mail). Maybe I was wrong in assuming she was referring to the e-mail I sent her but she didn't respond to my e-mail in which I CLEARLY stated I didn't think she was hostile to me and that I didn't think she was the one with the chip on her shoulder.
However, CJ5 has responded in a very hostile manner to a lot of good people. She accused us of calling her stupid (yesterday at 4:45). NO ONE SAID THAT! Then in her 8:39 PM post last night..."BTW don't worry some people warned me that this forum is like this." And then "Don't worry "Advanced exercisers" I won't be reading your thread anymore You have made it perfectly clear that you will dogpile anyone who threaghtens your high intensity mania. I can see why now everyone emailed me because obviously they have been burnt before. Someone mentioned that "modifiers" need to be more vocal on this board. I can see now why they are not. feel free to jump on one foot to nasium. By the way Roe thanks for your response but truly you must have missed Barbaras "generous" post at the beginning of the thread before she edited it. No worries I will just go back to the richard simmons tapes as clearly that is the class everyone seems to have put me in."
No one has said that at all. But man she sure was out to bite some heads off!
What we have said (yourself included) & I will say again is that Cathe markets to what she calls the educated crowd. I believe that she means that you probably have enough experience to follow the modifications she shows a few times or to make your own adjstments as necessary.
I'm sorry but I only posted my e-mail to her because I don't see my e-mail to her as having been hostile--I actually sent it to someone that doesn't know me from Adam, who said I should have posted it instead of e-mailing her. The reason I said that I am guilty of stirring the pot is because I have done it on occassion but was not trying to do so here. I was right to try to contact her privately because she has ripped those that have posted on the board up one side & down the other. I was trying to avoid going down the rat hole with her. I should have just left it at that but didn't want Barbara being accused of something she didn't do & I wanted to clear up any misunderstanding.
Honestly, someone said they thought a bunch of people had responded in a hostile manner to CJ5, I have gone back & read & re-read this thread. The only hostility I felt was from her until Cathefan3 really took a wallup! OH MY GOD--WOULD YOU READ THAT ONE! HOLY CRAP! But she is right, CJ5, took this down the rat hole. No one else. (I came back to add -- & I laughed my a$$ of reading that one!). If you're reading CJ5, I'm sorry, I call 'em as I see 'em. I think like runner4fun said, when reading things in writing, we tend to "hear" things that aren't said. Please don't read this with hositility but a calm voice because that is how I'm thinking & if you read with a hostile tone please (seriously, please) go back & read again. I'm not being hostile, just stating my case.