Just like the rest I want to say how sorry I am that you're going through this. You know if it's time to leave.
I did after 23 years. It was the worst and the best time of my life. I learned I don't really need anyone else. I can make it just fine. Now I have someone I want in my life and he is very good to me.
take care.
Paula
Valentines day is your day.....it is a wonderful new start and for you and your beautiful daughters Good luck and stay positive....because it will always take you through the tough times.
Have you ever thought about a vacation from each other for a while. Sometimes people just need to get away alone for a bit. I have a friend who actually lives in a different city from her husband. They can't stand to live with each other, but they enjoy 'dating'. They have been living like this for over 10 years. Works for them.
Wishing you the best for whatever your future brings you.
Your pictures are wonderful....one thing for sure - you both make really beautiful children.
I know what you are going through. I just left a 9 year relationship, my dogs and a great kid (his daughter). You never know what god as in store for you. I admire you for making your decision and not staying when you know that is not the right thing to do.
It is *not* easy but it can be a fresh start. Stay positive and keep your chin up!