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Cathlete
How do you guys handle friends/family who make snarky comments about your healthy eating and fitness habits?
I try to eat healthy, but I'm not by any means obsessive about it, but it seems like my one friend and also my sister, always make comments about my healthy food choices when we're out. They also make comments about what may appear to them to be "excessive" exercising (I do STS and cardio but nothing extreme...) My weight also seems to bug them...I'm 53, 5'1" and weigh 119, so I'm not exactly a stick figure, but I look slim and healthy. I haven't lost any weight since January, but I have lost inches, (thanks Cathe!)and the other day my sis said, "So how much MORE weight have you lost?" In the last year and a half I lost maybe 15 lbs, so it's not like I've been losing TONS of weight...
I feel better than I ever have, and I get discouraged when I have to constantly defend my healthy choices. I never know how to respond to them when they make comments, and although I'd like to be snippy, I try to bite my tongue. They're both the most wonderful gals in all other areas... Are they just trying to make me feel bad to compensate for their own lack of healthy choices? Has anyone else had to cope with this? Thanks for letting me vent....
Denise
I try to eat healthy, but I'm not by any means obsessive about it, but it seems like my one friend and also my sister, always make comments about my healthy food choices when we're out. They also make comments about what may appear to them to be "excessive" exercising (I do STS and cardio but nothing extreme...) My weight also seems to bug them...I'm 53, 5'1" and weigh 119, so I'm not exactly a stick figure, but I look slim and healthy. I haven't lost any weight since January, but I have lost inches, (thanks Cathe!)and the other day my sis said, "So how much MORE weight have you lost?" In the last year and a half I lost maybe 15 lbs, so it's not like I've been losing TONS of weight...
I feel better than I ever have, and I get discouraged when I have to constantly defend my healthy choices. I never know how to respond to them when they make comments, and although I'd like to be snippy, I try to bite my tongue. They're both the most wonderful gals in all other areas... Are they just trying to make me feel bad to compensate for their own lack of healthy choices? Has anyone else had to cope with this? Thanks for letting me vent....
Denise