Hi DiDi. I have the same problem. I've had a thick waist all of my life, and now as I near 42, I really have a problem with carrying weight in this area. My waist is only 2 inches smaller that my hips. All of the women on my mom's side of the family are built the same way. I do cardio and strength, but I notice that if I don't keep up a fair amount of cardio in my exercise routine, I get really chubby in the middle - even around my rib cage. I don't work out every day, but I try to do a cardio video 3 times a week and I make sure I do some ab exercises each time I workout. One of the benefits of strength workouts is you will get a strong, tone back, which will help give you a tighter waistline. So much work but it helps!