Tangentially related, this summer, I had a few job interviews. I was wondering if I should wear pantyhose or not. I know in certain circles, pantyhose are starting to comeback because of Kate Middleton. Anyway, I was doing research about the pantyhose and many of the commenters at the ends of these are men that seem to have a fetish for hosiery. Or, they were men who made comments like, "Unless you're 20 with great legs, please go back to wearing pantyhose."
I did wear pantyhose. The secret is not buying L'eggs or Hanes. I went to Macy's and got some 6 denier, super sheer, Calvin Klein pantyhose. I put them on, they matched my skin perfectly. It just added a polish to my interview outfit. It is like wearing mineral make up for your legs.
I will now always wear pantyhose to job interview, but that's about it. Anything else, parties, dinner with my husband, holidays-- I am bare-legged. If anyone makes comments or looks askance at me, that is their issue.
I am of the belief you should wear what makes you feel good.