Please Help Me :(

NaturalBeauty

NaturalBeauty

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I dont know what to do. Last night my husband came clean and told me he cheated on me while he was out of town working. I cant begin to describe the hurt I'm feeling right now. I cant stop crying;( I feel so betrayed. I feel worthless. I dont feel loved. Im not sure what I did wrong;( He meant everything to me. We have a 6 month old together....I'm....devestated;( Im having suicidal thoughts. I cant deal with this...somebody please anybody....send up a prayer for me;( I have to go. I so shaken up I cant even type.


Tassha
 
Sending you prayers!! You can get through this I promise. I know it seems like the end of the world but its not. You have a wonderful beautiful baby out of your marriage. I can entirely understand that you must have all those feelings!! I am giving you the ultra-biggest hugs and prayers your way !! !!!!
 
Call a helpline now! Please. Call your mom, call a friend, let them know whats going on.
I am so sorry Tassha, that is the ultimate betrayal and I know how you are hurting. Please do not blame yourself, its not your fault, men and women cheat for reasons that usually stem from their own self esteem issues. But enough on that, I am worried about the way you are feeling right now, please call someone right now. I am sending good energy your way girl. Call!
 
Dear Tassha,
I am so sorry! I will pray for you and your child. Please find someone to be with you until you are feeling better and more in control.
In Him,
Kristi
 
I agree with Allison. Don't try to handle this by yourself. Call a friend or relative that you are close to right away and talk to them until you calm down a bit. Then pack your stuff and go stay with someone until you have sorted things out. Staying in the house with your husband will only make it more difficult for you to figure out what to do and how to recover from this. Plus you sound like you shouldn't be alone.

Sending prayers and hugs your way!
 
Tassha, I'm praying for you in earnest. Please, please call someone to come and be with you now -- your mom or a friend, or your minister. You didn't do anything wrong and you don't deserve this.
 
Oh Tassha, I'm so sorry this has happened. I can't imagine how you must be feeling. ((hug)) I know one thing for sure ~ you are NOT worthless. What he did has nothing to do with who you are as a person.

Hang in there and know that you aren't alone. I agree with the other posters ~ find someone you can lean on. A family member or a trusted friend perhaps. As horrible as this is, it's only temporary, and you are strong enough to get through this. And please come back here to check in with us. <3
 
Tassha,

I agree with everyone; please call someone. Praying for you. Please realize you did nothing wrong. Let us know how you're doing.

A friend in fitness,
Shirl
 
Call someone ... What your husband did has nothing to do with how you are as a person.

I can't even imagine the hurt you are dealing with but please call someone and talk.

You are in my thoughts Big Hugs going out to you.
 
Tassha

I have prayed for you and will continue to do so. Remember,

" God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble." Psalm 46:1

You are not alone and God will see you through this hardship. {{{HUGS}}}

Debbie
 
Tassha -

More prayers for you. I have no words of wisdom - I don't think there are any for such betrayel. I agree with the others - reach out to someone, anyone. You need someone with you. Your Minister would also be a good bet to chat with. {{{HUGS}}}
 
Tassha,

Even though you may think your world has ended, it hasn't, and nothing stays the same forever. It's always changing and growing. You won't feel like this forever, and who knows what is in store for you in the future. Besides, your baby needs you. Stay strong for no one else except that person right now. Give your baby all your attention, and that's all for now. Feel free to PM me anytime you want and as much and as long as you want. It's sometimes nice to talk to someone you don't know.

Get into a place to live that you feel comfortable in, and stay put. Hold your loved ones that are near and dear to you close by. They will support you.

Hang in there and remember, thing always change, usually for the better.

Sending you (((((hugs))))) prayers, wonderful thoughts your way. Please remember to eat and stay strong for your little one.

Janie

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The idea is to die young as late as possible.
 
Just another praying for you and reminding you of your daughter. She is dependent on you and you CAN and WILL get through this like so many others do.

Make sure to take care of yourself and your daughter and don't make any harsh or rash decisions. And most of all know that no one can blame their behaviors on another. The choices we make are not dependent on others - they are ours and ours alone.

That goes for you and whatever choices you make for yourself and your daughter. Make them for you and not him.

Best wishes for a better day tomorrow.
 
I know it does not seen this way right now - but this is HIS problem. You did nothing wrong! As much as it hurts you, it really has nothing to do with you - his action. His incredibly selfish action.

Be well - sending prayers your way.


Jeanine

We find beauty in the most incomprehensible places and the otherwise homely faces. It is our gift to see beyond the dirt, terror, sadness and defeat and find the true soul that lies within. We are Rescue.
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call a friend, your Mom. Someone to give you comfort.
what a horrible thing to have to deal with, my heart goes out to you.
 
Sending a prayer your way. Please do what everyone else told you, call a friend your mother someone. If you have a great girlfriend go stay with her you need to be around a good friend.

Again sending you prayers and a hug.

Farrah
 
I am praying for you. May the peace of God help you through this. You have been given lots of good advice already, and I hope you do call a pastor, hotline, family, or wise friend.
Jill
 
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