OK I think I have a problem, help me!

Well, I think a decision like this is personal.... but I will say that in a past similar situation which I made the mistake of following through on, I ended up feeling deflated and awkward afterwards... it's much more fun to flirt and wonder what IT would be like rather than to cringe at the reality, lol. My experience with young guys is that most of them can give you quantity but not much quality. hehehehehe I always say, I don't run the boot camp any longer!!

My other big thing is KARMA. Everything bad I have ever done has come home to roost way too many times for me to do stuff that I don't want done to me! lol

:7

Definitely enjoy the attention, though!

Marie
 
Wow, broken heart, no money, drugs, STDs, you sure make this sound like fun Shonie!

:eek:

Seriously, it sucks what happened to you. And you're right about most trainers--I'm not gonna generalize but I'd say the vast majority of them--the guys anyway, the women seem for the most part pretty well adjusted--have serious issues. I don't think this kid does (his brother is my best friend's boss, so I know something about his personal life--ooops, yet another reason to stay hands off), but he's young, I'm sure he just needs a little time.
 
LOL! Well Demi Moore is what? 40? She has been with a guy (forget his name) that is 28? They are both happy.
And what do you mean "old lady"???? Well excuse me, but I am almost 38 and I am not some old lady!!! ((((HELLLOOO))))You certainly are not old! You are a beautiful woman and one that cares about her body so naturally you will attract attention. Go with the flow.

Charlotte~~
 
I don't know, I think if your wildly IN love with your boyfriend, then this guy wouldn't be a problem cute and sweet or not.... Rhonda
 
How much older are you than him? Better to sow your oats before you are married. Really! When we are young, we think a few years is a huge gap but as we age, we realize that it is not that big a gap.
 
I say, why the heck not? There's nothing wrong with dating a man who is 24. It's not like he's a teenager. He's an adult, you're an adult. Hell will not be opening its doors for you if you go out with him.

OK, I see that you have a boyfriend. If you don't want to end the relationship with the boyfriend, then don't give in to the temptation. Otherwise, a boyfriend is not a husband.
 
If you are in a committed relationship with your boyfriend - This is a definite NO NO!!!

Is he paying attention to you in a way that you wish your boyfriend would?

I know my DH and I go through times where we just get comfortable and don't nurture our relationship like we should. Maybe you and your boyfriend should find new ways to "rediscover" and bring some of that spice back into your relationship again. Then, you'll be too busy thinking about your boyfriend to even give this guy a second thought.

Besides, always remember that the grass isn't always greener on the other side.

Good luck,
 
LauraMax, I don't see having an admirer as a "problem", unless he's a stalker.

And you're not old. I think we're just about the same age, and if I didn't have two boys giving me headaches every day, I know I'd feel young all the time.:)

You're not going to jail -- he's 24. Or hell -- you haven't surrendered to the temptation. Yet.;-)

I think you solved your own problem when you said you should take all that discipline and apply it to what is important (and lasting) in your life.

Pinky
 
I had a gf once that really loved her bf , but wanted to try something new for a cahnge. They had been together for 6 years and were 3 years apart in age. She went out , found "another" for a night, and let's just say she left his house not being "satisfied" even though the act DID happen. She felt really guilty, told the bf and he said. : "If you can be taken, your not worth keepin'". Just some food for thought. :)
 
You won't go to jail or hell. If you want to see what happens, give it a chance.

I dated a 19-year-old when I was 29 and he treated me like a princess. He was sooooo good to me. We might have gotten married if I hadn't moved back to Indiana.

There's a reason why you like this...find out what the reason is.
 
>You won't go to jail or hell. If you want to see what
>happens, give it a chance.
>
>I dated a 19-year-old when I was 29 and he treated me like a
>princess. He was sooooo good to me. We might have gotten
>married if I hadn't moved back to Indiana.
>
>There's a reason why you like this...find out what the reason
>is.

Catwoman, she has a serious boyfriend.
 
Wow! A lot of different opinions in here. I have to say that first of all I would be flattered. Second of all I'm 26 and I have to tell you that guys in their 20's (especially early and mid 20s) are only good at one thing. It starts with an s.. }( If you're looking for that and only that then you'll be ok, but don't expect too much in terms of commitment. Most guys at 24 don't even think about that. That being said I don't believe in the age thing. If you're compatible with a man and you have things in common age shouldn't be an issue. I have dated men that are older than me and younger than me. Finally I have to say that if you're in a relationship and you're in love and comfortable, why risk it? Love is one thing and lust is another thing. Flirting is okay when you're in a relationship, we're all human, but if you're even considering the idea of being with another man, then you should examine the relationship that you're in and see if something is wrong.


By the way, Kathryn you made me laugh haha.
 
LauraMax - you look great and please don't consider yourself an "older" woman! I know I would be flattered but I know that someone so young is probably not capable of having the kind of relationship you have with your boyfriend. BF sounds great! You give me hope after my failed marriage. I have gotten some, um, "attention" from a 23 year old at the gym I work at but I feel like at that age, they are not looking for a serious relationship. Just a certain type of "relationship" - I'm sure you know what I mean. But what you and your boyfriend have does not sound like it's worth messing it up for a hot young guy. Like someone else said, imagine the roles reversed....:eek:

I'm sure you'll do what's best for you....From one Laura to another....;)
 
Do you ever eat Hot Tamales and popcorn (flavored with butter and salt or a derivative) at the same time?!? MAGIC.
 
Excuse me....not to deviate here, but did someone say peanutbutter fudge:eek: :9 Forget the cute guy!!!! LAWD HAVE MERCY!:p

Man this is great! we got threesomes AND fudge in one thread! Can't get ANY better than that }(


jes
 
<There's a reason why you like this...find out what the reason is.>

I think if you do that, and only that, your happiness and feelings of self-worth will be multiplied, and that lasts longer than any 24 year old.

I have to agree, I draw a line at touching anyone but my DH. That line came up right when we told each other we loved one another for me. I think you have to not only be willing to give up BF for 24, but you should really give up on the BF relationship if you went for 24.

I think your best option is to go with trying to figure out what the 24 year old can give you- sounds like flirty fun and adoration. Not bad!! ;)

I'm telling you flat out what I think because I care about you, even though we've never met! Sorry if it comes out harsh.
 
>Man this is great! we got threesomes AND fudge in one thread!
>Can't get ANY better than that }(
>
>
>jes


Yeah, baby! Dinner AND a show.}( :p :+ :7 Now you're talkin'!

Pinky
 
ooooohhhh hot 24 year olds are the best. I think you've gotten great advice here of course from the ladies, but I just wanted to share a very funny experience of mine!

Ok, so I met a 24 year old last year. oh my GOD was he hot. mmmmm. So (I promise this is a clean story...) we hang out, get to know each other a bit. I'm having a hard time with his age, but he doesn't seem to be. So one night he is dropping me off at home, but comes in with me...so we are kissing. I had on a tank top and I guess he could see that I have tattoos (2 chinese symbols around my belly button) on my stomach. He reached for my waistband and tugged on it!! I grabbed his hand fast and he goes "what does that mean?" I said, "it means we're NOT going there...." he goes "no, what does that mean?" I said again, "I'm sorry, no, I'm not going there with you." He goes, "no, your tattoos, what do they mean?"

Oh man, I wanted to die from embarassment! I couldn't stop laughing after that and shortly after he went home. He should be 25 by now and finally done with college...wonder where he's at
Brandi


http://www.picturetrail.com/jackieboy:P ;-)
 
Wouldn't that be like having an affair with your doctor, shrink, lawyer etc? Client relationships should be platonic. A little flirtings ok though.

Dave
 
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