Next question for Staying at Home so many years

beth6395

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My next question is what do you do for an application or resume when at home so long.

My nuerosurgeons office broke up, Can't find any of the doctors. The lawyer I worked for moved don't know where he went and neither does anyone else he was one lawyer office ran for office in our town didn't win and left. Am I to include that or do I start fresh with nothing.

I have never turned in a resume what will these places expect.

My medical billing was just out of highschool and I do not even know names or people anymore. Geesh this is sad.

Am I too expect them to understand or do they understand being at home for so many years.
 
What about your local workforce center?

Actually, I had been a SAHM before going back to school to get my bachelor's degree. I graduated May of last year and really had no job history to show. The temp agency I signed up with helped me to create my resume for the kinds of jobs I was looking for and they were invaluable for that.
 
Beth, most people would understand your situation. Many people, women especially, have been in the same boat. I've been out of the workforce for 14 years, and I too was dumbfounded when I realized that I would need to build some kind of resume...even for an entry level job at the library!

My old boss might not even remember me ~ assuming he's still alive ~ and my office manager...who knows where she is. This is why I've decided to volunteer for a while first. That way, I'll get some experience, collect decent references, and I'll have something to put on my application and resume.

Hang in there! It'll work out one way or another. :)
 
My next question is what do you do for an application or resume when at home so long.

My nuerosurgeons office broke up, Can't find any of the doctors. The lawyer I worked for moved don't know where he went and neither does anyone else he was one lawyer office ran for office in our town didn't win and left. Am I to include that or do I start fresh with nothing.

I have never turned in a resume what will these places expect.

My medical billing was just out of highschool and I do not even know names or people anymore. Geesh this is sad.

Am I too expect them to understand or do they understand being at home for so many years.

I recently had someone submit a resume to me for a position as a paralegal. I knew she had been raising kids for many years, and had been out of the work force, but it did not matter to me. I just needed someone smart, who could learn, deal with clients and write letters. She probably thinks I never got back to her because of her lack of experience, but that is not the case. The reason I did not get back to her is that her resume had typographical errors, and worse, grammatical errors which showed that she would not be good at writing. Remember, there is no excuse for having ANY mistakes on your resume. The fact that she had the mistakes showed me that she was not detail-oriented and the fact that she did not have others review it for mistakes told me that she was not diligent. I was shocked because she had a law degree and was highly recommended by another lawyer I know.

Your post lacks proper punctuation, sentence structure and has spelling errors. However, for all I know you may be typing with one hand with a baby in your lap, so it doesn't matter for purposes of this forum. But your resume and your cover letter must be perfect.

HTH
 
Nancy, thank you for the insight. I'll remember that when the time comes for me to put together a cover letter and resume.
 
If you have done any work with PTA or scouting or anything like that you may have a personal reference even though it was not a work environment. Also, networking is very important to getting a job. I'm in the job market too.
 
Your post lacks proper punctuation, sentence structure and has spelling errors. However, for all I know you may be typing with one hand with a baby in your lap, so it doesn't matter for purposes of this forum. But your resume and your cover letter must be perfect.

HTH[/QUOTE]


Thank You Nancy. I WILL make sure I listen to this advice when I am ready.
 
Making sure that your resume is perfect (as Nancy said) is step number 1. Also make sure that you show up for your interview in professional attire.

My husband got a job in finance straight out of college with a masters in history because his boss said he was the only one to take the trouble to show up in a suit.
Even if you know that you will be working in scrubs, a professional suit (I got mine on sale at Penneys for $40) shows that you will be a dedicated and professional employee.
 
I am an HR Manager and was a SAHM for 13 years. Have a BS in Accounting and it was difficult to get back into the workforce. I was at home when the tech world took off and desktop computers had become common in the businesses world.

That said, I was looking for an accounting job but had very little real experience not only out of college but with most of the software that companies were using. Many companies that were hiring were hesitant due to the gap in my career experience. After college I was a clerk for a year (to prove myself) and then a supervisor but only for a total of 3 years prior to taking off to start a family.

Lucky I was to SAH and raise my 3 kids and during that time I was very active in the Parent's Club (PTA), on the budget committee for our elementary school, was a docent for our Arts Alive program, a coach and parent coordinator for my kid's sports teams, very involved in their theater programs, etc . . . I put a few of these things on my resume and then added them to my cover letter to explain a little further in the few things I had accomplished.

Examples: I was Treasurer of our Parent's Club for two years and switched the budget from being done by hand to Quicken. I also had a craft business which I ran for numerous years - small, but a business no less. I had a few awards from the City in which I live for community service, etc. That's about all you can do to get in the door to get an interview. From there, your personality and talents will take you further if it is meant to be.

I had a few companies that pretty much "cut the interviews short" because I didn't have recent experience. So be it . . .

I've been at my current company for over 11 years because they understood the Work/Life ideas and balances that we run across in life and they actually hired me as a clerk with the hopes that I'd someday grow into a larger role. That took all of 9 months when I went from accounting clerk to Accounting Supervisor to HR manager in another year.

ITA with Nancy and dragonf1y that a "perfect resume & cover letter" and a professional attitude are necessary. Especially in this day and age - heck, all the poor kids who have been working on degrees and those who have been employed for decades out of work with no employment available . . . ?

As for Nancy's interviews for jobs that require detail, (I once was a legal secretary and understand what can happen with one small mistake :eek: in a legal setting), but perfectionism does outshow BS which many can give freely. When reviewing resumes and cover letters, those errors and lack of professionalism are the first things I point out to my hiring managers.

Also, when having someone review your resume have them only correct your grammar or spelling - don't reinvent your resume to portray something you cannot keep up with in an interview. As in - you must be able to "speak" the language/knowledge you have put in your resume. (Hope that makes sense - my DH wanted to use loads of fancy terms and grammar that he didn't really understand and I convinced him to "say it in his own words" so he could back it up when interviewed).

Hope that has helped a bit from not only one who HBTDT but also from one who is responsible for recruiting.

Put your skillsets out there (in your cover letter and resume) and then you must sell yourself once you get in the door.

Best of luck with your future job search . . .
 
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