I know you feelings my cousin pass something similar, she is only 34 and her husband was sick for 3 years with sclerosis multiple and he past this year and March 2 weeks after she didn't feel good so whent to the doctor and was breast cancer so they did cut the breast and now she is in treatment, she has 4 small childrens, was very hard for her but she said praying all the time and God listen to her, and I know God will be with you sister and you family, had fe I will pray to.God bless you