Ok, by my understanding they had been letting the relationship slip for a while. When Jen had filmed the last episode of friends Brad did not come and that was very hard for her. Then she was away filming, and then he was and poof! Brad met Angelia, he became interested. I believe that Jen thought there was no relationship between Brad and Jen but learned differently as pictures surfaced after they had filed for divorce. I think that is were the hurt really hit hard. I know I'd be devistated if I was going through a divorce and learned that while I was feeling sad enough my husband, soon to be ex, was already romancing another woman. Of course, this is puting everything together that I've read and seen on tv in interviews. I try to stay out of tabloid stuff, but this one I've been interested in because I didn't believe for one second that Brad would ever do something like that. That is until Jen came clean and told her side. That was when I finally felt that I was starting to undersand everything and felt bad for Jennifer. But like those before me said, I'm not personal friends with either, I'm reading something out of a tabloid magazine and only listening to one side. I could very easily be wrong about what's gone on.
Kathy