Well, I am offended for the people that don't have jobs because they would just be happy to have a job no matter what...YEAH, RIGHT!!! I am totally joking!!! Just trying to point out that anyone could find offense in anything if they are on the defensive. It never even occurred to me that this thread was offensive.
In my work as a psychologist, I see where we have started to become so hypersensitive to offending people that, at times, we do not give the full picture. For example, we used to say people who were very low functioning (in IQ, adaptive behaviors, etc.) were people with mental retardation (MR). In the past few years, the wording has changed and we now call those same people "intellectually disabled." While that is definitely a more gentle term, it can give parents the wrong idea. I have had parents tell me that their kids are not "retarded" but are intellectually disabled and just have a learning disability but will be able to be in general education on-level classes and go on to college. While I would love all intellectually disabled children to do that, their independent living skills as well as cognitive functioning are very low and it is not likely they will be able to do certain things (like live on their own or go to college). Like I said, while it is definitely more palatable a term, it just doesn't always give a clear or realistic picture.
So, I guess my point is, at times we try to be too hypersensitive and that can get in the way.
People just need to RELAX and not try to look for things that aren't there. We can always find something if we look hard enough.
[stepping off my soap box now]
Lorie