I am so sorry to hear about your loss, I have went through a similar experience two years ago and there is nothing, NOTHING that anyone can say that will make the pain go away. It does lessen in time but it takes some time (I thought I was going to go insane, all I did was cry, felt very empty) It really helps to surround yourself with those who really matter to you and take as much time just to grieve. Dont let anyone decide how long your grieving process should last, your heart will let you know. It helped me to try as soon as I felt somewhat normal again (to shift the focus to something happy). God Bless Your heart and spirit. Take Care..lots of hugs