Not all the programs work for everyone the same way.
That is true. Programs don't work for the same people equally. My rule of thumb is this.
If you find a program and you love it, BrightLineEating, Weight Watchers, Low Carb, High Carb, All Meat, No Meat, NurtiSystem, JennyCraig, CountingCalories, Intermediate Fasting, One Meal A Day, MyFitnessPal, Richard Simmons Deal A Meal, only Potatoes for two Weeks, etc. If you find that you are losing and you feel really good, do it! But, if you feel hungry, crying, and ready to kill people, get off the diet plan as soon as possible. There are many other diet plans out there to lose weight on.
The real magic to lose weight is patience, eat less processed foods, cook your meals and eat real foods (foods that actually look like what it does naturally, like an Apple looks like an Apple and not Apple pie!), drink less soda and drink water when thirsty!
As for exercise, people think if you do hard core exercise you will lose weight. But, some say you get hungry later. I do get hungry later if I do something really sweaty, so plan my next meal for this. So, I do my step around 3pm and then eat at 5pm. And that helps me with not running to the grocery store and buying ice cream. Now, if I scheduled my step at 6pm after dinner then I want something sweet, like ice cream. I would suggest if you want to do exercise plan to eat your meal afterward then you will not over eat.
I look on exercise as helper to my body. It makes me feel better. It makes me breathe better and makes my headaches go away. I look on it that way. I use to look at it as burning calories and that got me in trouble, so I look at it as a treat for my body.
If you are new to exercise just walk. I wouldn't suggest you get you heart pumping really fast. Start slow and build up to it. When I first started I could only walk for 10 minutes at a time and there was no way I could do 10 minutes of any Cathe workout. It takes time, but keep with it!
You can do this!! Find something you love and stick with it! Because if you don't like it, you will not stick with!
Jen Den