I'm new to Cathe, but not to weights. My reply is personal, but directly related to the weights/cardio dilemma.
In high school, I was a skinny wimp who couldn't make it through P.E. class. (not that skinny = bad, but it's worthless when you can't even walk a mile) In college, I signed up for weight lifting for my P.E. credit, thinking it would be circuit machines. Imagine my surprise when it turned out to be free weights! I wanted to run for the door, but the teacher won me over by explaining the benefits of weights for women. (This was in 1986, so this guy was ahead of his time.) The instructor graded not on how much you could lift, but how much you improved during the class. No 3 lb. dumbbells for us, when 15 reps got easy, we increased weight just like the guys. This wimpy girl turned into a buttkicker, and I even grew curves!
Fast forward 15 years...after having my daughter, I had flabby arms that wouldn't go away. No amount of cardio made any difference. Three more years of mid-thirties spread and nursing my mom through cancer made me gain another dress size. However, six months ago, I rediscovered fitness. My program includes 2-3 days of free weights and alternating cardio (usually step and kickboxing.) The results have been amazing!
My arms now look good in tank tops, my stomach has flattened out, and my thighs are shaping up. The scale only shows a five lb. loss, but I've lost a dress size and can see my college body breaking through. Not to mention that I'm finally able to deal with having lost my mom.
All of this happened through a combination of weights and cardio. My most important point is that I follow my college teacher's advice of adding weight when 12-15 reps stop being a challenge. The cardio is vital, but I would not see these changes without weights.
I hold you Cathe fans in high regard...having mastered Cathe's Basic Step, it's time to move up. Wish me luck!
One more thing, Cathe, you are more motivating than a string bikini. Thank you for helping me re-capture my buttkicking glory days!