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  1. bjbowers

    Upset and not sure what to do....(long)

    Dad gets dibs...I have a small family, BUT I have friends who I call "family" and we mean it with all sincerity. We are extremely close, the kids call my parents grandma/grandpa etc...I feel wholeheartedly (that's not supposed to be one word, is it?) though that if I were in your shoes, Dad...
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    For friends, new & old...

    *I just had a wonderful dog come into and out of my life and am sad *My beautiful golden turns 3 years old today (5/7/08) *It's Mother's Day this weekend and I get to both spoil my mom and spend time with her...we both win!!!! Brandi
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    new "unexpected" addition to my home

    RE: new 'kay, said I wasn't gonna cry again!! Janie, you're right, I know, and thank you. I am a huge animal lover, and I was maybe getting a little selfish. Thanks Janie, you're so sweet and positive all the time. Brandi eta: I'm still going to post his adorable pic tomorrow IF I can...
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    new "unexpected" addition to my home

    RE: new Well 2 hours after I called her, she called back and had her son in law come and get him. :( I was sad, and I believe he was too ;) She called and told me that she made an appt to get him fixed, and thanked me profusely. She called herself his "mom" which made me feel like she loves...
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    new "unexpected" addition to my home

    RE: new Okay so his owner lives about a mile away from me. The Humane Society gave me her name and number, and 15 hours after we found her, the lady didn't even know he was missing!!! Ugh, that just makes me sick! Now I'm waiting for her to call back to see when she might be able to pick him...
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    new "unexpected" addition to my home

    I will post pics as soon as I can, but I have the most adorable stray laying at my feet right now. He looks like a german shepard mixed with something, but he's got to be the sweetest thing I've ever seen. My SO and his son found him outside when he almost got ran over. We checked with our...
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    Phobias anyone?

    For me it WAS spiders...well, I still don't want to see them, but a few years ago I HAD to face my fear...I lived alone and rented a house that had been empty for a month. It had many spiders!!! A few years before that, I was at my mom's house and was going to the bathroom. Her bathroom...
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    Why does this bother me???

    Oh and here I was feeling like the evil step mother...even though SO and I aren't married, I'm helping raise this boy, who is SO SPOILED by grandparents! They have a cell phone for him, which is fine, he's 12 soon to be 13. It's nice when we need to reach him too. BUT...his grandparents just...
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    When's your birthday?

    July 31st, I swear there is some conspiracy though, because every year my birthday comes earlier and earlier...but people must be in cahoots to tell me that it's been a whole year already...I was just 27 yesterday wasn't it???? no...36 this year from my calculations! Brandi
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    Help - choosing shoes for running treadmill

    I will 2nd or 3rd or 4th the importance of getting YOUR perfect shoe. Recommendations are great, but like others have said, what works for one person may not do a thing for you. If you have a chance to get to a specialty store, do so. I ran for 5 years before I finally broke down and went to...
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    Anyone from the Pac. NW in WA?

    I'm living in a small city now, about 20 minutes from Mt. Vernon, called Sedro Woolley. I grew up and lived most of my life in Burlington. I still work in Mt. Vernon. Brandi
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    What's with some people's attitude !!

    I think that this is one of the most supportive places I have ever found. I've lurked/posted/lurked/posted for 4 + years...and yes, there are always some who come specifically just to stir the pot. But, if you stay awhile and really read what goes on here...you will see some really unique...
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    Baby gift help

    Ok, I'll let real mom's chime in here...but my first thought when you asked if it would be silly to buy stuff she may not wear for over a year was just think when they ARE able to fit into it, they will remember your thoughtfulness YET again. ya know? Here they will sit and have this adorable...
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    Friday night fun: Favorite movie 1-liner?

    Caddyshack Chevy Chase's character to Danny the caddy: "you see Danny, to me winning isn't, you do." There are several from Dumb and Dumber, I probably quote that movie daily. "excuse me, Flo? what's the soup du jour?" "it's the soup of the day" "mmm, that sounds good, I'll...
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    He's at it again. I hate my life

    anonymous, I remember reading your post from a little bit ago. I also posted about an abusive situation recently. I'm also still here in the same situation. I'm home, and he's out at the bar. So not the life I wanted. And when he comes home, I'LL BE THE RUDE ONE...in his eyes. For...
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    Recommend Cathe to be on Oprah!

    Ditto Pixiesis!! My sentiments exactly Brandi
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    Who drinks a gallon of water...

    I used to drink about 100-120 oz. and found over time that was too much for me. I would find that I almost had the feeling of having to go again right after going...very annoying. I cut back to 65-80, but I don't measure exact amounts. I drink water all day long, and spread it out. I also...
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    quick computer help for computer nerd?

    Thank you Vee!! I'll try that when I get home! Brandi
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    quick computer help for computer nerd?

    I got a new computer and things have been running smoothly until tonight. I use hotmail, and have been having no problems, but tonight when trying to login, I get the following message: Windows Live ID requires JavaScript to sign in. This web browser either does not support JavaScript, or...
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    I need your help

    Thanks everyone for your advice, kind thoughts, and prayers. Last night was a rough night, when he comes home from the bar, he finds a way to make things MY fault. Anyway, some answers to some of your questions, it is his child. The mother is not in the picture anymore. We got full custody...
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