> I have always wondered if you could lose weight and/or inches by
>NOT counting things like calories, carbs, fat grams, etc. Do
>you have other strategies that help you stay on track with
>your diet? Could you share please?
>
Absolutely! I don't count carbs or calories or most things, though I do avoid some things that I think are detrimental, or at least not beneficial, to my health.
I just make sure to keep to a pretty much whole-foods diet (the closer I stick, the better I control my weight), ideally at least half raw foods, and avoid processed foods, flour (more easily digested than whole grains-- especially white flour. I eat bread, but not a lot, and it's sprouted grain bread), and white sugars.
When I eat high-carb foods (which I don't avoid just because of the carbs), I do usually make sure that they contain at least 2 grams of fiber per serving. Even most "health food store" crackers and cookies don't pass the test. (I will occasionally eat things that don't fit these criteria, but the less I do so, the better I feel and look).
I also avoid foods with high-fructose corn syrup/sweetener and hydrogenated oils (both of which are man-made substances that the body doesn't do well on, IMO, and from what I've read, the increase in obesity in the US parallels the increase in the use of these two substances --I refuse to call them 'foods"--in our food supply.)
The more nutrient-dense your food choices (vegetables, fruits, beans, whole grains, foods that contain high levels of vitamins, minerals, natural fibers, antioxidants), the more satisfied your body is, and the fewer cravings you will have, in my experience.
It's also good, IMO, to avoid "non-foods" in general (things that have a list of ingredients that include things that don't exist in nature, like candy, soft drinks--whether diet or regular, which are either just empty calories, or more chemicals one puts in the body--even most "meal replacement" or "protein" products, which are often just glorified candy bars. To satisfy the "candy bar" cravings, I like Lara Bars ---all raw foods based, with 2-6 real ingredients per bar-- Vega bars--actual meal replacement bars, with a high percentage of raw ingredients and hemp protein --which is the most easily absorbed protein).
A good book for learning how to make better food choices, IMO, is "Picture-Perfect" weight loss. It is full of (yummy-looking!) photos, comparing two meals or snacks with the same amount of calories: one that is calorie dense, and one that is nutrient dense. It doesn't mean that you have to go around counting calories, but you become more aware of the choices you make, and can choose a more nutritious, less calorie dense option.