HB,
I just want to say how sorry I am that you are going through this. I dated a guy for 6 years and found out he had another girlfriend
all along. I broke up with him, cried for months. 5 years later, I met my husband and now we have a little boy. It was the best thing that ever happened to me. If I hadn't found out about the girlfriend, I might have stayed with the loser. Just be glad you know now and can move on to something much better!
MD