Owning 5 businesses and having 3 teenage girls makes life CRAZY, busy and quite often, complicated!
Another one for Flylady, here!
I hired a housekeeper to come in once a week for an hour...We do the basics, she does the stuff we HATE (mopping and dusting), switches laundry, cleans catbox...
I have on my voicemail that I return calls at 9am, 1pm and 6pm...That is the ONLY time I return voicemails...People know to leave detailed messeges so I can have answers prepared....
Sunday is an OFF day in our home unless it's an emergancy (funeral at the flower shop)...I will not even book weddings for Sunday, the other flower shop in town gives me a referral to send them to her...All chores and errands are done Monday-Saturday...No laundry, cleaning or anything else that isn't "fun" on Sundays...Though this IS the day I'll triple a couple of favorite recipes for the month...
I hired an assistant (one of our girls) to take care of things that pile up at the stores (paperwork, web updates, ads, mailing lists) that I hate...It leaves time for "money making" activities that I enjoy...She's a neat freak and very organized, I am not...
The girls have "set" chores they do...If they aren't done, they WILL skip a game, practice, etc...There are NO "but, Mom's!"
I started "bulk" cooking 6 years ago (before the chaos began!), thank goodness! The first one home makes dinner...Even the girls can put a hotdish (casserole to those who don't live in the midwest!) in the oven...Try 30 Day Gourmet...WONDERFUL site! At the least, cook up 5 lbs of hamburger (or beans, turkey, chicken breasts, etc...) with onion and garlic...Freeze in meal sized portions...That's 15 minutes off of dinner prep!
Hope that helps!
MJ in MN