My sweet dog died. I'm so sad. :(

Marla -

Tears started flowing as soon as I saw this thread. I'm so so so sorry about your loss. I've lost a dog and a few cats before and I know how excruciating it is. I'm especially attached to my 4-footed best friend right now and I would be absolutely devastated without him. Time heals, but you'll never forget him. Time, tears, hugs, pictures and lots and lots of "remember whens".

I'm thinking about you and your family, Marla. I'm so sorry.

{{BIG HUGS}}

Angie
 
Oh Marla - the pics made me cry and brought back memories of my beloved Randi who looked just like Maeve. I lost her to kidney disease at three years old. The pain was so great and not a day goes by that I don't think of her still. She was the sweetest dog on earth. Please give Maeve lots and lots of attention. She needs it now and hugging and kissing her will do you good. It will get easier. It takes time and do think about possibly rescueing another dog and giving it the kind of life you gave Hunter. Do it in his memory. You won't regret it.

Take good care and hugs to your entire family

Mar:(
 
You're in my thoughts. I've been where you're at right now and it's so difficult. Pour your love into the family & Maeve and you'll get through.
 
Marla,

I am so very sad for you. I did look at the pictures and Hunter was an adorable dog!! Take your time to grieve for him, he was an important part of your family. Also, Maeve will probably need extra attention now, since her best buddy is gone. You are in my thoughts!
 
When my precious Nicki died after giving me 14 years of love and laughter, someone gave me this:

The Shepherd's Prayer

I live among God's creatures now
In heavens in your mind
so do not grieve for me, my friend,
As I am with my kind

My collar is a rainbow's hue
My leash a shooting star
My boundaries are the milky way
Where I sparkle from afar

There are no pens or kennels here
For I am not confined
But free to roam God's heavens
Among my Shepherd kind

I nap the day on a snowy cloud
And gentle breezes rock me
I dream the dreams of earthings
and how it used to be

The trees are full of liver treats
and tennis balls abound
and milkbones line the walkways
just waiting to be found

there even is a ring set up
the grass is lush and green
and everyone who gaits around
becomes the best of breed

For we're all winners in this place
we have no faults you see
And God passes out the ribbons
to each one - EVEN ME

I drink from waters laced with gold
my world a beauty to behold
and wise old dogs do form my pride
to amble at my very side

at night I sleep in angel's arms
her wings protecting me
and moonbeams dance about us
as stardust falls on thee

so when your life on earsh is spent
and you reach for heaven's gate
have no fear of loneliness
for here you know I wait
 
Oh, I'm so sorry. One of my beloved dogs died last July 4th & I still cry.Hunter was soooo beautiful. God bless you & your family. Coleen
 
Oh, I am so sorry. That stinks! I have two dogs and I know that losing one woudl be so painful - for everyone. I hope that it gets easier for you and Maeve.

Hugs,
Christine
 
Dear Marla, I am so, so sorry. I can't even imagine what I would do if my dear Chico was gone. I know you will never forget him. I have lost a couple of my favorite cats and that was hard enough but I will think of the sweet things they would do & it always bring a smile to my face. They are all so individual & you just can't help recognize that.

You are so sweet for recognizing Maeve's grief right now. Thank you for being so caring. All my heart goes out to you right now.

Marla
 
Marla, I'm so so sorry about your dog . your story made me cry too . I so can relate My dog Buddy of 10 years died 1 and a half years ago. I still cant deal with the fact that he doesnt come running when I pull in the driveway My other old dog is 11 now ,We finally got another dog last fall ,Now 8 months old ,And we always tell him how Buddy would of loved him . You will feel better soon. ....Heres a saying I once heard ...... "Our dogs dont live our whole life , but they make our life whole ".. So so true ... Hugs to you and your family .Your Hunter will Always be in your hearts !!!I gotta stop I can hardly type .:-( :-(
 
Marla, I'm so sorry. Know that you gave him a wonderful life. The suggestions given here are wonderful and will help you get through this time.

It's so sad that dogs and cats have such a short life span. I have my two girls and my oldest is 11. I know the time will come when we have to part and I have already started to prepare in my mind.
 
Coming to you with big hugs too :))))))))

I know how the loss of a pet is traumatic. Please know we care:-(

Hunter was very special.
 
Marla,
He looks like such a sweet guy on his photos, and a good pal to your children. Like people, pets can't be replaced and we don't stop loving them just because they're not alive. In time, you'll probably feel up to getting Maeve a playmate, but for now, be gentle w/ yourself. Your days will get easier. I'm so sorry for your loss.
Valerie
 
I'm so sorry. Losing an animal is such pure grief because our relationships with them are based on unconditional love. I had to have a cat put down in January and I was devastated. I called a pet loss support line because I couldn't deal with it. Time has helped a lot but I still swear I see her everywhere.

As for my dog, I can't even let my mind go there.

If you feel it would help you, you can call Tufts University School of Veterinary Medicine Pet Support Hotline. Here is their web address
www.tufts.edu/vet/petloss . They helped me a lot.

Hang in there. It takes time to get used to life being different.

--Lois

"Don't forget to breathe!"
 
Oh, I forgot to mention. The other thing I do that really eases the pain. I do this for humans too. I write down anecdotes, feelings, etc on a sheet of paper (usually while crying) and I bury it with whomever has died. It makes me feel better knowing they will always know how I felt (even if they dont). It helps me get over that horrible edge and begin to put the grief behind me.

Another hug to you, you can never have too many right now.
 
Marla
I am very sad for you and your black lab, Maeve. Pets, are a very special part of our lives and when they pass it is really losing a family member. My love and hugs to you and Maeve and all of your family. Know that hunter is in no pain and it was his time to go. Bless you.
 
I'm so very sorry. My dog is 10 and she is slowing down a bit. Since she is with me all day long I practically spend more time with her than with any other family member. I can't even imagine the day when she won't be with me anymore... All my thoughts are with you Maeve and Hunter. Mari
 

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