My little cat did not come home

Connie1

Cathlete
He was due last night to come home from his regular daily activities. He is very social. He was neutered a year ago and has been very predictable in his schedule. He was home yesterday morning. This morning he is still not here. I checked the shed outside, in case he was locked in.

His name is Rummy and he has a collar with our name and numbers on it.His collar has a bell so we can hear him coming.

My DH says he might be locked in someone's garage or something. I was going to work out this morning but I can't concentrate...

Tell me stories of how cats came back so I can get through my work day...
 
My little cat disappeared for a whole week last year. We had pretty much given up hope. We let her out on the Sunday night, as usual, and she didn't come back until Friday afternoon, soaked and filthy. I have no idea where she was for that time, but since then, she's never strayed far from the house. The vet told us that now she knows she's got it good.

Cats often do this, so I'm told. He'll come back:)
 
The good news about this (yes, there is!) is that when cats escape, they tend to stick close by. So I'm guessing your kitty is hiding somewhere nearby, but is scared to come out.

When my previously-feral kitty escaped, I put out a bowl of the stinkiest food I had (tuna) and sat very, very quietly out on the front stoop and waited in the complete dark - no lights. After it seemed like I waited forever, I saw two white paws in the dark! The cat came back!!

Chances are if you do the same thing, your Rummy will come back too. Give it a try! It might take you a couple of nights, but I suspect your kitty wants to come home too!

Good luck and let us know what happens.

Remember - no lights and wait outside very quietly. I waited over an hour, just to let you know what you're in for.
 
Connie,

My inside, declawed cat escaped last year and I about drove myself crazy worrying about her. She's very nervous and jumpy and had never been outside before. She was gone 10 days and nights when right before we went to bed one night I heard crying and she was on the front porch waiting to come in. She was very skinny but bounced right back! She didn't try to get out for several months but now is back to trying to escape by busting screens out of windows and running out when the door is open for a split second. She's not a very SMART cat, but I love her anyway. ;)

I know how upset I was when Cleo was gone, so I know how you feel. You and Rummy are in my prayers. I hope he comes home SOON!
 
Connie-
I hope your little cat comes back. If he doesn't show up in a few days I would start knocking on doors with a flyer.

Our Bella Gato did not come back last September and after two days of putting out tuna and waiting. Upon distributing flyers and knocking on doors, I called on a family who had burried my cat after their son saw her get hit by a car which didn't stop. Another neighbor had taken a digital picture in case anyone came looking for her. She was very good at taking her collar off; so she had no ID.:-(

I pray that your kitty is just out galavanting for a spell and will return home today.

Judy
AKA Likes2bfit since 1999
 
My cats are all indoor cats, with an occasional outdoor excursion under my supervision (and wearing leashes as necessary), but one day, I went out to put some bird food in the feeders, and didn't realize that the screen door hadn't shut completely. When I turned around to go back in, there was Simon, my big black cat, coming out the door. I put him back in, looked around to check and see if there was anyone else out, then went in to watch a show and correct some homework.

Two hours later, I went to take some stuff out for the squirrels, and when I opened the front door, there were two cats sitting right in front of the door staring up at me as if to say "Where the )@!# were you!" What kind of advertures they had, I don't even want to know about (luckily, I live in a dead--end with little traffic), because I'm sure I would have worried (dangers from dogs, cars, mean people, stray cats) had I known they were out there.


When I was a kid, our cat Tiger got out of the house one day and disappeared. We searched and searched, but couldn't find him. About 2 months later (!), there was a scratching at the back door. We opened it, and in runs Tiger, making a bee-line for the basement. I don't recall him being ill or injured, just scared and happy to be home.

When I first moved into my house, 10 years ago, I had just made a previous outdoor cat (who was a stray hanging out at my old apartment) into an indoor cat. I kept her in for 3 weeks (having read stories of cats that make their way back to their old homes after a move), but one day decided that she was so street smart and not a roamer that I would let her out for an hour. She disappeared. I called, and looked, and knocked on all my neighbors' doors looking for her for about 4 days. I drove past my old neighboorhood several times, and got out a couple times calling for her. No cat. I was very worried, because it was in the mid-to-high 90's every day, and I thought she'd die of heat prostration,, or was locked in someone's garage, or had been abused by someone (black cats are often the victims of human cruelty).

Then one day, as I was driving to work, I passed the little woodsy-looking area (at that time. Since then, people have cut down a lot of the trees and made it less wild, unfortunately). I thought to myself: "that would be someplace I'd like to hang out if I were Tina". So later on that day, I walked down to the area (1/2 a block away) and called and called (I'd done it before, but I was more insistant).

Suddently, this little flash of black appears (she was a very tiny long-haired black cat, thus the name "Tina"--tiny/Tina). She was meowing at me, as if she were trying to get ME to come to her, because that woodsy area was so cool! I kept calling her while walking home, and she mirrored my progress, but staying close back near the trees, until we got to some houses, the she ran home. She never strayed after that, and in fact, never wanted to go out after that.
 
The longest one of my cats was gone was 6 weeks . We had a huge snow storm and he was gone I figured he died . 6 weeks later he showed up fatter then when he dissapeared . I figure he was hanging out on someone couch for that whole time !!! Your kitty will come home !!!!
 
Before we moved, 10 years ago, my cat would leave home a lot. She would actually be gone for up to a week at a time. I was convinced she had a second home somewhere. When it came time for us to move to our new house, she was not home. We lived in a mobile home at that time next door to my mom, so I told my mom to watch for my cat to come home. A few days went by and she still was not home. I went to the mobile home and opened up all the windows/screens and left food and water just in case she came back. She finally came home after about a week. I cried when I saw her as I thought I would never see again. Since living in our new house, she stays home and never strays.

Don't give up hope. Cats are amazing.
 
Hi,
Don't give up either. I had a cat Dirtbag (he was a big time sprayer) he disappeared for TWO years. We had him for about a year or a year and a half before He disappeared for two years. We didn't care in a way because he was a very dirty cat, stinking up the whole house, ripping everything to shreds, etc. When he came back, he was so beautiful, HUGE and FAT. He was on the small, skinny side before he left even though he ate a lot. We were surprised he was still alive. We thought he was eaten by an owl or something. He just died a month ago of an old age. We found him as a stray kitten. Most of my cats always disappear for a week to a year at time and they always come back. I had this cat Sissy, she was a seasonal cat. What I mean by seasonal is she comes home in the fall and winter. She takes off in the spring and summer. I won't see her until fall. She's weird. LOL I've had her since she was a newborn though. She should be about 13 now. I wouldn't worry too much but I'd still keep my eye out for Rummy especially if you live in a busy area. Hope it all works out!

Lisa
 
I don't have cats now, but growing up we had quite a few and they would often go off for a few days, sometimes a week or more, but they always came back. I don't know what kind of area you live in but if it's fairly rural I wouldn't worry too much. I've also heard that if you walk around the perimeter of your yard the cat will pick up your scent if he's lost.

Hope you find your kitty!
 
I remember once when I was in junior high, I guess. We had a bunch of cats, and my favorite was a black and white tom. We live way out in the country, lots of woods, rural dirt roads, etc. That cat just disappeared. I would sit out on the porch at night, just hoping he'd come back. Then one day he did, and he was absolutely fine. He must have been gone for a couple of weeks, at least, but he didn't have a scratch on him.

Then we had another cat - Marvin is his name, and he's still around. He did the disappearing act and was gone so long we were sure he must be dead. Then one afternoon, I was down at the barn, grooming the horses. I heard this really sorry-sounding meow. There sat Marvin, on the tractor. Something had happened to his ear - it was all swollen - but other than that, he was fine. When the swelling went down, his ear just sort of crumpled and never has returned to normal, but other than that, he's the same odd cat he's always been.

Cats are very tough and resourceful. Don't give up hope!
 
I'm sorry, I did not read any of this thread, including the original posters, cuz it just upsets me too much to read these posts, but I wanted you to know that I hope he comes back and DON'T LOSE HOPE!!

I am thinking of you and your little kitty..:)
 
Connie, we've never lost a pet so I have no words of advice, but I hope your little sweetheart shows up again real soon!!

Carol
:)
 
No news yet

We went door-to-door all around our house. We live in a semi-rural suburb infill area. That is, it looks rural but it's higher density than it looks.

We posted signs all over. I am full of hope after reading all your stories!! I will tell you if I have any news the second I get it!
 
IMHO, it's best to keep cats indoors. I am sorry for your plights, and I say this as an enthusiastic "cat" person, but please consider keeping your Rummy indoors when he comes home. All the house cats I've had were neutered males, and they all were good house cats.
Just Do It! :)
 
>IMHO, it's best to keep cats indoors. I am sorry for your
>plights, and I say this as an enthusiastic "cat" person, but
>please consider keeping your Rummy indoors when he comes home.
> All the house cats I've had were neutered males, and they all
>were good house cats.
>Just Do It! :)


I agree completely!
 
I am in the same situation. My cat has been gone since Saturday the 28th. I am sick to my stomach everyday because of the stress of worrying. We made flyers and put them in everyone's mailboxes in the surrouding neighborhoods. He is such a beautiful cat that I am afraid someone has kept him.

Good luck and I will say a prayer that your cat returns home.

T
 

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