My dog Rudy

bjbowers

bjbowers

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Last Friday I had to put my little girl, Rudy (in my avatar) to sleep. She would have turned 17 this year. I know in my heart that it was the right thing to do, and I've been trying to prepare myself for it, but I didn't know it was going to be THIS hard. :(

I miss her like crazy. She was born on my bed in 1990. Her mom was scared and didn't know what to do I guess, so she went and hid under the bed! Rudy was the runt of the litter, but she came out bullying her brother and sisters right away! She was definitely "my" girl, and was happiest with me. She used to give real hugs, it was the sweetest thing.

I'm so used to having her with me, I keep on looking for her. Anyway, I just wanted to post about it and hopefully hear reminders that it does get easier. ;(

Brandi

Brandi
 
Oh, I am so sorry for you Brandi. Thank you for sharing a little bit about her. She sounds like a wonderful girl. I'll keep you in my thoughts.
 
I'm sorry for your loss. It will be easier over time and you will smile thinking of all the wonderful memories you've had together. I'm sure she's still with you and you will be together again one day.
 
I'm so sorry. I know how hard this is for you. You can never prepare yourself for it. Try to take some comfort in the fact that you were able to help Rudy when she needed you most. Letting go is so hard--even though in our heads we know that it's better that they're not suffering anymore, our hearts can't help but break when we lose someone who loved us so completely.

My thoughts are with you and Rudy...I have no doubt that you gave her an amazing and happy life and that your life is so much richer because she was a part of it.
 
((((((((((Brandi)))))))))

I am so sorry. I know you are really hurting right now and will continue to grieve for your precious Rudy. I cannot say anything that will make you feel better. If I could, I would offer a shoulder to cry on and ask you to tell me all about Rudy. You will never forget her or all the cute and unique things that she did, but you will, with time, be able to think of her without the tremendous sadness in your heart right now. So for now, let yourself cry without worrying about the opinions of others. They cannot know the depth of your pain. Do whatever you need to do to comfort yourself, and take as much time as you need. It is different for everyone. And keep in mind that it does get better. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

MissL
 
Oh Brandy, I am so sorry!! Rudy sounds like she was a wonderful part of your family. I love the part about her being a runt but bullying her siblings right away!! She was really a survivor. You will always have your memories. The pain does get better, it just takes time. ((((((HUGS))))))

Catherine

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Brandi,

I am sorry for your loss. It is amazing the love that we have for our pets. Rudy will always have a special place in your heart. I know that it will take time to heal, but hopefully things will get better for you. (((HUGS))).
 
Oh Brandi I am so sorry--having been thru this myself recently (it'll be 6 weeks as of Thursday & yes, I am keeping track) I can really empathize.

It hasn't gotten any easier for me--I miss the old girl every day, almost every minute--but I do take comfort knowing I gave her the best life a dog could ask for, & that she didn't suffer. Remember that when you think of Rudy.........that is, when you're not remembering all the silly, goofy, sweet things she did to make you smile.
 
Thanks everyone. I'm trying VERY hard to remember the good times with her. Friday was so hard, and I want to remember the young, happy girl rather than my last image I have from that day. She had seizures, was almost completely blind and deaf, and was just tired. She deteriorated so fast over the last month. I imagine that she's now completely healthy and happy and running and hopping around (yep, I swear she had springs in her paws, because she used to hop!)

Anyway, thanks again. I knew you guys would understand.
Brandi
 
I am so sorry. They become family. I have two dogs that I am extremely attached to and they are getting gray. Not sure how I will handle it when it is there time. I read the book "Marley and Me". You should read it. I think you will enjoy it. They just become a part of you and I think you will always miss her. It does get easier after time but you will never forget her. So sorry, I will be thinking of you.
 
Oh Brandi, I'm so sorry for your loss. Rudy sounds like a very special little girl and I'm sure, like you said, that she's chasing squirrels in the sunshine right now:)
 
I'm really sorry about your dog. Last August, the day after my birthday, I found out my Macy had bone cancer. She was 12...a German Shepherd and I'd had her since she was 6 weeks old. We put her to sleep that same day. Three weeks TO THE DAY, my Doberman, Lyra, fell over in the kitchen from congestive heart failure. I couldn't even believe it was happening AGAIN. Believe me, I FEEL your pain. It gets easier but you will always love them and they will always be with you...as it should be.
 
Brandi,

I'm so sorry for you loss of your little pal. Our pets hold such a special place in our hearts. It is so hard to say good bye. You just have to remember all of the good times.

"Grieve not, nor speak of me with tears;
but laugh and talk of me
as if I were beside you;
I loved you so,
Twas heaven with you"

Dianne
 
Hi Brandi,

I am so very sorry for your loss. I too lost a beloved pet almost 3 months ago so I can definitely relate & share deeply in your profound sorrow. First, I'd like to tell you how darling her picture is! She looks like a very loving & devoted friend & I know you will miss her terribly. But like many others have said, it does get easier in time. I was nearly inconsolable every single moment of every single day in the first few weeks & then my unexpected tearful moments became less & less frequent until my DH & I were finally able to talk about her & our wonderful times together without tears. Instead, we shared our wonderful memories & they started to make me smile. Now, I still have my moments & when I read something like this, I get choked up again & I feel so sad for you. But it does get better. One thing that helped me happened about a week ago. My DH & I got a little shelter doggie & he is so loving. While he in no way, shape, or form is intended as a replacement for our precious Hippy (she can never be replaced & there will always be a special place in our hearts just for her!), I can tell that there was a void that needed some help being filled in our lives. He is already bringing much joy & laughter into our lives & even though I wasn't sure it was the right thing to do initially, I now think it was the right decision in the long run. He needed a home & we had a home that needed to be filled with a furry friend. So I just wanted to share my experience with you & tell you how sorry I am for your loss. I hope you will remember all the special times you shared with Rudy & the wonderful life you gave her. Please take care & let us know how you're doing.

Kel
 
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