Baylian, I'm not offended by the post, because I know it expresses what many people feel, but I'd like to express my opinion too.
When a cashier at a coffee shop says "Merry Christmas" when she gives me my receipt, I sometimes get this sinking feeling in the pit of my stomach. While I don't personally subscribe to any organized religion, I am acutely aware that my heritage is so wrapped up with an organized religion, that it is impossible to separate "my" history from religion. I know that if the Jews in America were ever rounded up and taken away to a camp, I would be taken right along with the most orthodox person in my neighborhood. Saying "Merry Christmas" to someone is not the same as saying "Happy Thanksgiving". In a way, when someone looks me in the eye and says "Merry Christmas", they might as well be saying "I do not recognize your history or your heritage or that America is a country where people of all kinds can live together in mutual respect".
I don't think I'm an extremist on this issue at all. I enjoy the Christmas windows at Lord & Taylor, and the beautiful tree at Rockefeller Center, and I take no issue with such things. I just want people who are addressing me directly, whether face to face, or in a card sent to my home or office, to be thoughtful enough to recognize that I am not a Christian.
So, I respectfully disagree with Go Fish. And, while I appreciate Tami's post, I want to remind her that some people in this country believe that Saturday is the day family members should spend together, away from work, and that some people don't believe in missionaries and prostelitizing.
And finally, I want to say that to me, the thing that makes this country so great is its freedoms and respect for all kinds. Sometimes we Americans may have a tendency to take this for granted because we've lived with it all our lives, but all you have to do is read a few newspaper headlines to know that this society of ours is a rare and precious thing, to be protected and preserved by each of us.