I lift heavy - and I LOVE it. I'll be 50 in June and am pulling my heaviest weights ever.
These are essentially 1RM's.
My arse-to-grass squat max is 185, with my goal being 200 pounds. Here is a video from FB (I'm not sure if you'll be able to see it???)
https://www.facebook.com/lorrie.ben...748426622291&set=vb.1043824210&type=3&theater of me squatting 200 pounds, only 1x, and only as deep as Cathe usually goes. When you go down much deeper and really push off through the heels, being careful not to rock forward to the balls of the feet is when you completely engage the back chain muscles of the body. Squatting in this manner engages like 263 muscles - nothing like it.
My deadlifts are 265 with my goal being 275 by my birthday. Bench press is definitely my weakest and I'm at 115. My behind the head shoulder presses are at 80#.
I'm 5'4" and weigh 130. I originally shared that article, above, and while I do think those numbers are a bit on the high side, I don't think they are body building numbers. Body builders pull
substantially more weight. I once read that the average woman should be able (again, on a 1RM basis) to bench press her wieght and squat twice her weight. Even those are tough, but with focus and proper training in form and technique, I think they are totally doable. Most of us don't lift nearly as heavy as we are capable of, and IF we want to see body changes from weight training, not nearly as heavy as we should be.
I shared in a thread eariler this year that heavy weights HAVE helped me target my problem areas, like my saddle bags. For ME (and this is NOT for everyone) my walking lunges were most effective. I use 65# for the warm-up set. I've gotten up to 130# for 26 steps (13 each leg.) With time, clean eats and HEAVY weights, I've seen real change. So that's my long-winded 2 cents' worth of saying I think you can achieve those heavier numbers. Be careful and be smart.