My husband and I went out to lunch and talked for a really long time yesterday
The issue is all my son. He has caused such a problem for our family my husband wants to move to get him away from all of the "dirt bags" he hangs out with so he can possibly turn his life around. I told him moving isn't the answer, he will just do what he is doing here, there. He doesn't want to stop smoking pot or drinking, that is the problem no matter where you live. Yes, my husband has driven so much in the last 10 years, I do feel sorry for him. He also works 14 hour days, 6 days a week and has no life outside of work. His customers are calling him all day on Sunday! He is a fleet director at the Largest Ford Dealership in CA, probably the US and it is high pressure sales. Keep in mind he makes a lot of money but the stress of work and my problem son is killing him. He wants me to work so I am not around my son, he is very abusive verbally to me and thinks it would do me some good to be around nice people during the day. I get that, so we compromised on a part time job to start and after we move then I can decided what I want to do. We have to move only because the land lord wont renew our lease. He wants to sell the house because the market is hot and it is way out of our price range. We surely don't know what is the right thing to do, but I told him if we stick together we can get through this. Our son probably wont graduate high school, he wont do his home work and he ditches all of the time. We have taken his car away so he has no driving privileges, and he now has to work. My husband is going to give him a few months to work and save up money to move out or he has to live be our rules, which he said he will not. It is absolutely heart breaking to have the most good looking talented kid see him screw up his life. He could have gone anywhere on a full ride scholarship to play football to any college, and he just stopped playing. He only hangs with the unmotivated people, he cant stand any pressure. So, this is my life but at least my husband and I talked it through and are going to work together. This has been the hardest 4 years of my life and i don't know when it will end. Until my son wakes up and sees what is really happening here, he is in for a long haul in life. What a shame.
On a better note, I woke up feeling good, less stressed and had a great workout. I did Cathe Live, All In Upper Body and had a fantastic workout. This is now my favorite upper body workout, a lot of variety and higher reps. Workout was 1 hour, no abs in this workout and I burned 421 calories.
Debbie, great job on the walk and yoga today. My handbag has done the same thing to me and i now carry a pretty back pack that doesn't weigh one shoulder down and i am having less issues. That may be your whole problem, my chiro took my handbag a way years ago, said it is the worst thing you can do for your neck and delt area. I actually have a bump on my bone from all of the rubbing it did over the years.
Doreen, that is my husband too, he goes overboard and after he calms down and thinks about it he is better. He holds too much in and then explodes, where i like to talk everything out.
Diane Sue, Boy you are up and at it early today. Great job with the Raw Step workout! I am achy today myself. My feet hurt after my TM walk yesterday and so are my knees and elbows for whatever reason. I hope you feel better. It was 80 degrees here yesterday and today is a high of 60. I am surprised that step workouts arent too hard on your joints, they kind of hurt my ankles.
Roselyn, thanks for the support. How is your job going, do you like it?
BBL to read your posts and i hope you all have a great day. Thank you for all of your support, you have no idea how much it helps to be able to lean on you all.