Friend seeing married man?

I just wanted to comment that I normally stay away from these types of topics as they tend to spark a heated debate which often ends up in arguments, flame wars and the like. I took my chances this time though and posted and I am very happy to see that it's been a nice, even-tempered, we can agree to disagree type of discussion. I wish they could go this well all of the time! :)
 
Okay, okay, okay. I suppose no one read my updated post earlier today, but that's okay....Anyway, thanks for your perspectives, that's all I asked anyway.
 
Newswoman,
I think folks read the post but are just continuing to give you opinions on it. :) I've been reading all the different viewpoints with interest and agree w/ Wendy that it's nice that everyone has been respecting one another's differences. The comments seem to me to be very thoughtful and honest and intended to help.

I am curious about one thing, if you don't mind my asking...How would you have responded if your friend said she was going to continue seeing this guy? Just wondering.
 
I just want to say that I've made huge mistakes in my past and my best friend has always been there for me, regardless of whether or not she agreed with my actions.
 
You don't know anyone really unless you walk in their shoes. I'm not condoning adultery by any means, but there are a lot of things I used to think were horrible that I realize aren't necessarily so horrible after all. We're all human, we make mistakes and show poor judgment, but we're not necessarily bad people. If it's an issue that bothers you that much and affects your feelings for your friend, then you must tell her that and end the friendship. I try to keep an open mind and I realize I'm very far from perfect myself, but if something really affects me that much, then you need to do what you need to do.
 
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