Four year old boy w/anorexia?

I agree, wonderful post, Robin! And thanks! It took me YEARS to really get over this weird disorder, but I think I finally have a handle on it after 43 years, and it IS a constant struggle!
Just Do It! :)
 
>I originally didn't post this thread because I didn't think I
>should lend this thread any shred of credibility. The pure
>ignorance of a deadly disease that afflicts so many men and
>women, frankly, appalled me. If the original poster knew
>anything about the etiology of anorexia nervosa she would know
>that the lack of eating was only a "symptom" of the disorder
>and "not the disorder." The self-professed pseudo-historian is
>also incorrect in other areas. It is certainly not a new
>disease. There were cases dating as far back as 1689 as
>described by Richard Morton in "A Nervous Consumption" and in
>1873 by Sir William Gill and Charles Laségue.
>
>It is wonderful that there is slightly better treatment and
>much more recognition of this (obviously) very misunderstood
>disorder. Unfortunately, there are still people who believe
>that it is all about food. I only have two words for
>you..."Get educated" for your sake and others. Your lack of
>knowledge is a danger to those afflicted.
>
>Now, back to my original purpose of this post... Maria
>Katherine, Shelley, LeslieMarie, Sparrow, Honeybunch, Nancy...
>and anyone who has ever suffered from any eating disorder
>(including anorexia nervosa, bulimia, binge eating, overeating
>and compulsive eating)......my hopes and prayers for a
>continued, ongoing and safe recovery.
>
>Cyberhugs,
>Robin

Thanks Robin, not only for the sweet sentiment, but for adding to what I said earlier, that EDs have been around for centuries, a concept that was dismissed out of hand as "utterly ridiculous" by the OP. x(

Sparrow

Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming ‘Wow - what a ride!’ — Peter Sage
 
Oh, dear! Melody, you are beautiful, do you know that?

I agree with Shelley because, for me, anorexia was always about control, or the total lack, there of. My last serious bout occured when I was thirty. It started at 15 with a comment. It plauged me from time to time, always when chaos became he norm in my life. I quit smoking and took up running and became very knowledgable about nutrition and not just the calories and fat grams in every food under the sun. I made peace with my body and outgrew the thinking and activity of anorexia. And then, viola, I endured an emotional trauma and feeling helpless, I did the one thing I thought I would never do again. I los 20 pound in 5 weeks and when I hit 100 pounds, I finally looked at myself and saw me for the bag of bones I had become, a raging loon, sleepless and self destructive. That was last summer. It was very simply a coping mechanism, tried and true, and I used it until I regained control of my life. Happily, that was easier this time. It was less about my body than about my mind and I was able to see it for it's ugliiness pretty quickly. Anorexia as a metaphor for stripping oneself to the bones to find the truth to discover the thinking and behavior that had brought me to my darkest hour and how that had contributed to the mess that was made. I know that's cryptic. Shelley would understand, understands very well. I don't know what my point is, but I can tell you this. I have two teen-aged daughters neither of whom have exhibited those tendancies. But I have an 8 year old son who does and has for several years. To those who struggle, my heart goes out and I will do anything I can to help. I am in recovery again, doing well and I will be very careful not to think that I am impervious to it's allure and it is alluring. Powerful stuff, very frightening and hard to fathom. Thank God for the power of love and hope. THIS time, I am going to make it!
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I'd like to jump in here and just express how eloquent a lot of you ladies were regarding this topic. Rogue, Sparrow, and many others, thanks so much for expressing yourselves and putting out there knowledge & feelings that some of us can't express as powerfully & beautifully as you have. You can't change anyone's mind if they are in denial, but maybe with time, it will change.

Marla
 
Hugs to those of you that are/were deaing with an eating disorder, I too have delt with one. I also think that you ladies handled this thread really well. It could have gotten way out of control, yet it did not.

Kathy
 
Edited: Never mind. Everything I wrote has already been said more eloquently by many of the posts above mine....
 

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