Heidi,
I pretty sure Little Lady missed yours signature line and didn't know you were a vet. I think her comment was born out of frustration from having to go through several vets to find one she could trust with her fur kids. I can totally relate...
My DH and I are very upset with our vet(ex) too.
We took our boxer girl to our vet last Dec. because she was urinating a lot and leaking urine. She was waking me up 2-3 times a night with a real sense of urgency. I mention this, because my vet felt this was a behavior pattern we had formed. She was getting older, and he believed dogs become more clingy to their owners. While I do agree, I am very sensitive to my boxer's when I hear them up at night (just like real children), I argued with him that I did not believe this was habit.
After he gave me "this could be bladder cancer" scare, I agreed to a series of bladder tests. Very expensive tests.
When the test came back her bladder was perfect, he diagnosed her condition as vaginitis and incontinence. He prescribed estrogen and sent us home.
Months later, I noticed her water consumption had increased a lot, her appetite became ravenous. Looking back, I now realize the onset of her symptoms were subtle and gradual. I had taken her to the vet several times this year for odd things like a sore on her toe that wouldn't heal, bald spots in her fur(tested her for ring worm)
, nose sore that wouldn't heal. Mercedes was scheduled to have a toe amputation but thankfully, I put that surgery off. I cry when I think of how stupid I was to trust this vet. I blame myself for not getting a second opinion.
I talked with my sister whose dog was going through renal failure at the time, and she asked if my vet had checked Mercedes' blood. He did not.
He never suggested it, I didn't think to ask for it.
I took Mercedes to a different vet in the same vet office and asked for a blood test. Her liver enzymes came back in the 3000 range. The vet wanted to perform the low dose dexamethasone suppression test to see if this was Cushing's disease. (Little Lady, Cushing's is common in middle age to older dogs- very rare in young).
My husband and I completely lost faith in our vet and no longer trusted him with our girl.
We drove her to a University Vet Hospital to see a specialist. We finally had answers that made sense. They took her off the estrogen, because she did not need it.
Our girl was diagnosed with a pituitary macroadenoma 8 months after my initial complaint. Something as simple as a blood test could have saved my girl from all the stress of needless tests.