>Maybe someone just likes big boobs and happens to have small
>boobs. What I'm saying is that it doesn't necessarily mean
>that someone lacks confidence because they decide to change
>their appearance. Look at how many women cut their hair
>differently, dye, highlight, etc. Does that mean they lack
>confidence? I just don't think that because someone might
>like the way something looks differently means that they are
>an unconfident person. I think that's a wide generalization.
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>Colleen
Colleen, with all due respect to you, I think comparing a hair color / style with cosmetic surgery is apples and oranges. I see where you are trying to get to with this, but I think you used the wrong analogy.
More generally, I must respectfully disagree that self-confidence is not a factor in cosmetic surgery, unless of course the surgery is reconstructive (when it actually still is, but for different reasons). I am sure many other factors come into play when choosing to have the surgery (such as for instance - a topless dancer who does it because she would make a much better income with larger breasts), but self confidence is always on the list, IMO. It BELONGS on the list. If it wasn't on the list, we wouldn't be talking about human beings. It's not shameful that people have self-confidence issues. It's a fact of life. It's how we choose to deal with them that people disagree on.