RE: 5'3
Hi runner2,
Your first question asked if you can ever get back to the "weight" you were before.....to that the answer is it is definitely possible to look and be more fit than you were 10, 20, even 25 years ago. You may weigh a bit more (or you may not) because of increased muscle mass.
You wanted to hear from other small women. I am 5'4", and I have an hour-glass and very curvy figure...sounds different from your body but....we all have to store our fat somewhere If, that is, we are not the naturally hard and lean type!) and most of us pretty much rue that body part. But it's got to go somewhere, no??
I thought I looked my best when I was 121...and I intend to get to that "best" again (just about 3 or 4 lbs of fat away right now), but I will weigh MORE because I will have more muscle.
Now onto the next question. How to lose the weight? Yes, smaller meals, more frequently. Neither stuff yourself nor let yourself starve. Eaten protein and a complex carb within 1 hour of working out. Work out consistently, of course.
How long should it take? If it's only 10 lbs, I think your rate of lose is going to be slower than if it was, say 50 lbs. Right now I am aiming for only 1/2 lb of fat a week. Have patience and faith, keep at it, trusting that it will work. I would seriously give it at least 3 months because those last lbs are so often so hard....but so worth it.
Tricks to staying slim? Just keep up with the good, clean eating and frequent meals and working out. Your body will tend to adjsut itself and its metabolism if you treat it well. And yes, you can have cheat meals both while you are losing the fat and after.
Last question.....was I born this way? Hmmm, that is so hard to answer, isn't it? Least for me, having blown up to 213 lbs at one point in my life..having done that it becomes hard to separate what was innate and what I did to myself. But, when losing all the weight I did NOT set a goal weight for myself. I just kinda stopped when my body stopped losing AND I felt I was there (as opposed to a plateau)...I just sensed that this was where my body naturally wanted to be and I liked what I saw. I think I was pre-disposed to be a curvy type of girl...certainly not long and lean. There are good and bads with my body type as there are with everyone, and you really have to love the positives and forget the "media" images to be happy with what you were born with.
Whew, I wrote a lot, I hope some of this helps!