I agree that the step in CTX series is not dancy. It belongs to the period of Cathe's creativity where she was doing a lot of athletic step, with many explosive moves and intervals inserted, fab things like power 7s and power 15s.
More recent workouts have been more dancy, especially all her low impact step routines, with the exception of Low Max. These, I don't like so much either. I positively hate the low impact routine from 4DS: no offence to Cathe but, I just can't get it!!
Low Max is an excellent step workout that will also help hone your legs. You can pick it up in no time flat and the leg-intense intervals will have your muscles burning all the way through. No joke.
Also, the Power circuit cardio segment from CTX is amazing: cardio intervals, interspersed with weight work for the legs. There are sections just like this on both Body Max and Body Max 2 also. These step workouts are very intense, not dancy at all. When Cathe does intense step work, she gets rid of the spins and fast foot patterns and throws in intervals, explosive moves, height and moving over the step.
Also, get Lower Body Blast and Cardio leg blast (correct names?) from Xtrain and from before these releases. If you can combine cardio work with the weights for the legs it burns the muscles very efficiently and, for me at least, is more fun than straight leg weight training.
Also, don't overlook the power of running and powerwalking as many hills as you can find. I have shaped my rear and sport fabulously defined hamstrings more from my powerwalking than from weight training. My 11-12 mile circuit around the town where I live contains about 7-8 hills of different incline degrees. Go for it.
For straight weight training, I agree with posters here: Leaner Legs. Also, Gym Styles lower body: it has the best combo of standing and floor work that suits people like you and me, tall, lean, looking for definition. The weights are moderate to light, rep counts differ, low ends included, some real slow-mo moves that are killer and it is not endlessly repetitive where you think it will never end and you just get bored and go off and see what the laundry is up to instead. (This happens to me all the time: low boredom threshold!)
Clare