Wil's surgery update, we're home (long)

melodygirl

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Hi everyone and, again, thank you for all your prayers, well wishes, and hugs for Wil and our family).

The surgery was Wednesday AM and Wil was quite the clown BEFORE going into surgery...different story coming out! Wil won the hearts of all the hospital staff beginning with pre-op team and moving right along to his care team after surgery.

At one point in pre-op Wil was holding onto the bed rails, laughing, shaking the rails and calling out "I'm in jail, get me out. Where's Dr. DeVito?" Then when the surgical nurse came to wheel him into surgery (we had already spoken with his Dr's assistant) Wil said "Stop, I haven't talked to Dr. DeVito yet."(his orthopaedic surgeon) The nurse promptly applied the brakes, went to get Dr. DeVito, who stopped as he was scrubbing up for Wil's surgery, came out, answered Wil's questions and left only after Wil was satsified. Love him for that. The entire staff of Children's Healthcare of Atlanta at Scottish Rite is undescribably superb.

Anyway, the 1 to 1-1/2 hour surgery became a 2-1/2 hours surgery as they did much more work than anticipated, which has resulted in much more pain that anticipated. The surgery is expected in the end to yield really good results for Wil.

The surgery encompassed Achilles tendon lengthening of both legs, left ankle bone repositioning, some rotational work of the left lower leg, lenghtening/release of both medial hamstrings, and lengthening/release of the tendons/muscles of both sides of his groin. OUCH!!! Think of how we complain of sore Achilles or a hamstring or groin pull...I'm not complaining anymore. I can't imagine how sore Wil is going to be once the actual pain is no longer the issue.

We've discovered that Wil has an unbelievably high tolerance for hard drugs. They were layering morphine, Tylenol with codeine and Valium as closely as possible in the hospital on Weds and Thursday and Wil NEVER slept and was never actually out of pain. Alot of screaming, crying, and "help me" was going on. (The nurses and I even joked of getting the rubber mallet to boink him and offer relief) They said any grown man should have been knocked out cold by then. Imagine how my heart has been breaking as I pray to take his pain for him. The pain issue was the same Thursday thru the night after we got home and for Friday. Finally, about 12:30AM this morning Wil went into a restful sleep and slept until about 6:30AM. He has been in MUCH less pain since then, but is still on Tylenol w/codeine for pain and Valium for muscle relaxing (the spasms are awful).

Wil has hard casts on his feet up to his knee (BTW,red was the color of choice), ace wrapping from knees to groin area with knee braces/splints on the upper legs. He can't remove the braces/splints for 3 weeks, so, of course, can't bend at the knee, and isn't to sit up 90 degrees til Thurs next week. Absolutely no weight bearing for 3 weeks and then the braces/splints come off and the hard casts remain for 6 weeks. He has a reclining wheelchair which he finds somewhat cool. After casts are completely off it's on to crutches and months of physical therapy.

Throughout all of this while in the hospital, Wil was still asking about his dad and brothers and concerned if I was resting and eating. He even apologized to the nurses that they couldn't go to sleep because they were taking care of him. He also had a few, um, opinions, about meds tastes, the noise of the IV equipment when it beeped, the IV needle in his arm, etc.

I've assured Wil he is the bravest, toughest, most amazing boy I know. And he, says "Not really, I'll be ok. Some children don't get better." Really, I don't make these things up, Wil IS this special.

One more lighter note. Wil, when in his really less than happy moments, keeps insisiting that I get Dr. DeVito on the phone so he can scream "Get these casts off NOW!!"

Again, I love you all for your caring and would appreciate continued prayers and well wishes for Wil.:)

ETA: I'm creating a "CarePage" for Wil and will post the link and login for anyone interested in keeping up-to-date. But it's not done yet...snzzzzzzzzzzzzz...still need a bit of sleep...snzzzzzzzzz
 
I am so happy that your son went through his surgery well. I just wish he didn't have to be in so much pain. I remember when my son had to keep being admitted in the hospital because of his asthma and it killed me to see him look so helpless when he is such an active little boy. I can only imagine what it must be like for you and your son because he seems like a ball of energy too and now can't move. I wish you both the best of luck and pray for a speedy recovery so he can be back up running around with the rest of them!!! He is a brave little guy having to go through that much pain. I know you are proud of him!!!
 
Thanks for posting this update, Melody. It sounds like the worst is over. What an incredible child! I can't imagine what he's gone through.
 
I'm so glad the surgery(s) went well. Tell Wil that my 8 yo DS Cole chose a red cast this week too! You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
 
Melody,

so glad to hear the surgery went well! Be sure to let us know when the webpage is up and running.

Hugs,

Sparrow

Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming ‘Wow - what a ride!’ — Peter Sage
 
Melody - yet again, your post makes me cry. I love Wil even though I've never met him. Thank you for letting us see his very special, remarkable spirit. I'm glad to hear his pain is abating. I know you'll take care of him wonderfully, but can you do one little thing extra? Give him a hug from me, please? :*
 
Melody,

So glad to hear this. Y'all have been in my thoughts for the last few days. I hope he continues to improve. :)

I will keep you and your family in my thoughts as he recovers. Please keep us informed of his progress.

:)
 
Just peeking in to read all the caring thoughts from you guys. Wil keeps asking me if "our Cathe friends" have any more messages and I keep passing them (and the hugs) along.

Wil is feeling better, eating junk food and resting more comfortably. He won't let me leave him long enough to work on that webpage though.:) Well, first things first.
 
Dear Melody, thank you for the update on Wilberlicous. I'm so glad at least that part is over. I hope the rest of his rehabilitation goes quickly, with as little pain and inconvience as possible. I hope to see Wil winning races someday in the very near future. And give the other guys a hug too. I'm sure Mac and Lee are great brothers, but sometimes it's hard to not get lost in the shuffle. You will all be in my prayers.
 
Melody,
I think Wil and you are such an inspiration. Thank you for the update, and please give WIl an extra hug and thank you for me, for allowing you to share all this with us. It makes me appreciate my own boys that much more.:+
I will continue to pray for a speedy recovery.
Hugs and kisses to the family!:*

Maeghan AKA megadoo

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Melody..thank you so much for taking the time for this update! Wil amazes me. What a very strong and inspirational boy...:)...my prayers will continue and I do hope for a speedy recovery...sending your whole family hugs and kisses...http://www.boomspeed.com/1631951/bearblowingkiss.gif[/img]
 
Melody - What an amazing strong boy Will is. Please give him and extra hug from me.

Good thoughts and prayers comming your way.

Will - you are an amazing boy and quite a trooper. We are all SO proud of you :)
 
Thank you Melody for the update. Wow that guy is strong}( Keep holdin on! Love ya Melody! Take Care.


Laugh and the world laughs with you. Cry and you cry with your girlfriends.
-Laurie Kuslansky-

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Hey, Melody!!!

Thanks for the updates on our Wil-ly Wonka!!! (in honor of all the chocolate/sprinkle donuts!!)

I wish that I could have been his nurse that night and help you out with him (even though I don't 'do' kid nursing!!!).

He is a very special little man and I hope that his healing kicks in double time so he can get out of the casts!!!

Prayers are still coming.....oh, and lots of hugs and kisses, too!!!!

Kiss Lee and Mac for me, as well!!!
 
Melody, that little guy has more spirit than most adults I know. I think I see motivational/spiritual speaking in his future. ;-) Many could benefit from his outlook. I am so sorry for the pain and discomfort that he has to go through now but thankfully this is a temporary moment of time that will produce an even more healthy and active boy. When reading the description of his surgery, it's amazing that with all that was done it took only 2 1/2 hours to complete. I know that was an hour longer than anticipated but if you go back and read your own description, you may see that so much was accomplished and that the time was needed.

He and your entire family are truly special and are blessed with many encouraging spirits. Continued prayers for a quick and pain-free healing are being sent.

Hugs,
Bam
 

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