It's been covered a few times here, do a search & check it out. Mine is a rose & stem with a celtic symbol across the stem (I just thought it looked cool), but the center of the rose is really a phallic symbol.
Anyway, I just feel like, "I've been there, done that, wish I could wash it off, cause now EVERYONE has one."
But I have always liked them on men. Maybe it's the bad boy side that gets me. I really , really like them on men. Unfortunately, DH only has a 3x4 on his right shoulder. He's too squeamish with needles. Also, he's another that thinks they instantly make a woman "trashy". Go figure.