Where is Kathryn?

[Amy Steppe]

I do not have time to post a lot here, but I have not seen posts from Kathryn (sp)?

I miss your posts and hope all is well for you!

Anybody heard from her lately? She used to post here a lot and now I don't see posts from her any more.

 

[morningstar]

Kathryn's still a regular poster here.

 

[kathryn]

Hi, Amy!
I've been around.
I was just gone for a few days end of week at a conference, so haven't posted.
(It's nice to be missed, though! LOL!)

 

[bonvivant]

I reported this. have a good day.

I did, too. Amy, stay safe. This is stalker behavior and is very scary.

 

[bonvivant]

How do I report this?

This man is nuts and I never did ANY porn for him.
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Click the little yellow triangle above his post. You'll be taken to a form where you can notify admin.

 

[bonvivant]

Amy, there's a link at the top: Help Desk. You can submit a ticket for forum support there. Since this involved stalking, it might be a good idea to use it. Sorry this is happening to you.

 

[Fit_mommy]

Amy, he posted on another thread you participated in on here as well. I just wanted to let you know if you have not seen it yet. Take care of yourself. ((HUGS))

 

[bonvivant]

Now people are going to think I am some sort of bad person.

You didn't do anything wrong. It's not like you're going around kicking puppies.

 

[Fit_mommy]

Now people are going to think I am some sort of bad person.

He will reply to every thread he can because I will not return his affection.

He is angry and mentally ill.

I agree with the poster above. You are not to blame. Do NOT blame yourself. You are an innocent victim and I am sure that everyone on here will quickly realize that. Once SNM gets the reports on this guy he will no longer be allowed to post here and if he registers another user name we will report it and it will be banned as well.

 

[LauraMax]

Ditto. I reported too. Amy, you're a beautiful, sweet lady & I can see how one might become enamored of you. But this wingnut obviously created an account here merely to cyberstalk you. Creeeeeeeepy.

 

[jacmar]

Can't someone get rid of that post so that this poor woman is not embarassed any further??!

 

[LauraMax]

Can't someone get rid of that post so that this poor woman is not embarassed any further??!

That's what we're trying to do w/the reporting.

 

[bjbowers]

I just reported it to, hopefully they will delete it.

Amy, you shouldn't be embarrassed, I don't think badly of you, only this Darren Cotter freak, that's why I want them to delete his posts!

 

[THE HAWK]

Having fun, Cotter?



Hey Cotter,

U liking upsetting Amy and these other ladies?

We can all see you are online.

Shame on you - what a person does in her private life is her business and you are slandering her unjustly.

You have NO RIGHT to come to one on the forums which are about FITNESS and post that link. This site is a professional site, so air your dirty laundry elsewhere.

 

[janiejoey]

I also reported it.

Be safe Amy.


Janie

 

[5$footlong]

Hey Cotter,

U liking upsetting Amy and these other ladies?

We can all see you are online.

Shame on you - what a person does in her private life is her business and you are slandering her unjustly.

You have NO RIGHT to come to one on the forums which are about FITNESS and post that link. This site is a professional site, so air your dirty laundry elsewhere.

Not to condone stalking or abusing the purpose of this forum in an attempt to humiliate someone, but a strong word of caution that the internet is not private. Just ask the middle school faculty member fired for doing keg stands with her underaged drinking buddies whose photogenic antics appeared on Facebook.

 

[morningstar]

I just did.

This man is CRAZY.

Darren is totally obsessed with me and I did NOT do a video for him and he NEVER has paid for anything from me.

He just won't back off and leave me alone.

He does his best to torture me - he spends his time googling my name so he can do this.

This post was about Kathryn - a person whom I respect and admire and I am so embarrassed.

Thank heavens he lives in the UK - and not near me.

He needs to seek help and will never get to me.

Amy, I have to ask, if this man has been stalking you for years, why are you using your real name on any website, let alone one where people tend to talk about their personal lives to some extent?

 

[5$footlong]

1. My point Amy is if it is out on the internet us out there and easily discovered. If it's embarassing don't put it out there.

2. The teacher doing keg stands was high schoolers.... Her son's classmates. She was not a pedophile. Ironic that someone who doesn't want to be judged harshly doesn't mind doing so to others. What she did was illegal though. Posing for photos in lingerie is not (and is not porn) and there are some very successful womem doing just that......unless you have a problem with the likes of Betty Page.

 

[cataddict]

Just stop with the snarky comments. I really can't deal with it right now.

Please respect me by not publically posting Life's Little Lectures right now.

I mean really........please stop.

I'm confused by your response?? Not trying to put words in her mouth but I think morningstar is trying to say that this is a very public place and if there is concern for your safety that you should be careful? Have I missed something in her words that would make you react that way?

 

[DawnA]

I have to say that no one seems "snarky" at all, but in fact, very factual.

No one is calling you names or saying that you did anything illegal. Obviously, it's not illegal to pose in lingerie on the internet. But, the internet is not private by any means, and if you choose to put yourself out there as you did, chances are good that someone will see it.

If you like the pictures of yourself - go for it. Don't let some stalker loser take that away from you.