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[Mariposa1973]

I can't be in the Sun because I get rash, I can't runing or jumping because I do have lower back problems, I'm in the bad mood most of the time, imsomnia, sweeting in the mid of the night, my period is 2 weeks long,+ I don' t feel like to have sex; Ok in basé of that my husband tell me last nigth at 1 am. Hé is very dissapoint and taired about me, because I' m not goin outside and play with the kids and water the flowers, hé Saïd I'm a boring person and to many things

 

[Mariposa1973]

I can't be in the Sun because I get rash, I can't runing or jumping because I do have lower back problems, I'm in the bad mood most of the time, imsomnia, sweeting in the mid of the night, my period is 2 weeks long,+ I don' t feel like to have sex; Ok in basé of that my husband tell me last nigth at 1 am. Hé is very dissapoint and taired about me, because I' m not goin outside and play with the kids and water the flowers, hé Saïd I'm a boring person and to many things

Looks like I'm piese of sh. for him. So sad, I try to explain to him, but hé said I'm no the only one who has health problems. I' m sorry, but I need bring everything out.

 

[Nanbo]

Please please please see a trusted health professional for a physical!!! SO MANY things can sap your energy and zest for life...sounds like you have some serious female issues that need to be addressed!!! Don't go on feeling like this! There is help out there !!!

 

[mackenzie]

Please please please see a trusted health professional for a physical!!! SO MANY things can sap your energy and zest for life...sounds like you have some serious female issues that need to be addressed!!! Don't go on feeling like this! There is help out there !!!

I second that. Could be a thyroid problem as well?????

 

[tralaiven]

I am so sorry for all that you are going through right now, believe me, I understand and go through it myself.

I would just like to encourage you that even though we might FEEL many things, feelings are just feelings, and I can still CHOOSE my behaviors. So, though I don't feel like having sex with my husband, I can still choose to have sex with him because I love him and he wants to. And even though I feel crabby and tired, I can make the calculated decision to choose pleasant and positive words. I am not a victim in this! I can choose and so can you! We can take our lives, insofar as it concerns us and make good choices!

So many times I don't feel like working out because my period is here again after only 19 days, but I do. Or I don't feel like it because I would rather eat 10 of my fabulous chocolate chip cookies with a gallon of ice cream....that is what I feel like doing, but I choose otherwise.

Listen please, because I have been there!

Blessings and best wishes only to you!

 

[Mariposa1973]

I am so sorry for all that you are going through right now, believe me, I understand and go through it myself.

I would just like to encourage you that even though we might FEEL many things, feelings are just feelings, and I can still CHOOSE my behaviors. So, though I don't feel like having sex with my husband, I can still choose to have sex with him because I love him and he wants to. And even though I feel crabby and tired, I can make the calculated decision to choose pleasant and positive words. I am not a victim in this! I can choose and so can you! We can take our lives, insofar as it concerns us and make good choices!

So many times I don't feel like working out because my period is here again after only 19 days, but I do. Or I don't feel like it because I would rather eat 10 of my fabulous chocolate chip cookies with a gallon of ice cream....that is what I feel like doing, but I choose otherwise.

Listen please, because I have been there!

Blessings and best wishes only to you!

Thank you, I try to do the same, but my husband said I'm acting like crazy.

 

[Mariposa1973]

Please please please see a trusted health professional for a physical!!! SO MANY things can sap your energy and zest for life...sounds like you have some serious female issues that need to be addressed!!! Don't go on feeling like this! There is help out there !!!

I wait for my period go away to make appoiment with my gy.

 

[Kate A .]

Hi ,
I'm pretty new here so I hope you don't mind that I'm responding to your post , but it really touched me .
Everything the other women have said I feel is spot on . You need to speak with a doctor that you trust and feel at ease with . I'm also so glad that you feel good about coming here to get those feelings out . That alone speaks volumes about you and the other ladies on this forum .
I went through a pretty crazy time when my menopause hit over a year ago . No sleep , night sweats , anxiety , hot flashes and this sense that I didn't really understand myself anymore . I was 52 and felt like a stranger . I started to talk about it to my best friends and also began working out - hard . Low and behold , I found Cathe , and started to feel more in control of my mind by making my body stronger . And VERY slowly , I started to find myself again . My point here is that , as women , we go through such changes ! Sometimes it's really hard for anyone , man or woman , to understand unless they have been there . But there ARE answers and there IS help . Always .
All my best to you -
Kate

 

[Mariposa1973]

Hi ,
I'm pretty new here so I hope you don't mind that I'm responding to your post , but it really touched me .
Everything the other women have said I feel is spot on . You need to speak with a doctor that you trust and feel at ease with . I'm also so glad that you feel good about coming here to get those feelings out . That alone speaks volumes about you and the other ladies on this forum .
I went through a pretty crazy time when my menopause hit over a year ago . No sleep , night sweats , anxiety , hot flashes and this sense that I didn't really understand myself anymore . I was 52 and felt like a stranger . I started to talk about it to my best friends and also began working out - hard . Low and behold , I found Cathe , and started to feel more in control of my mind by making my body stronger . And VERY slowly , I started to find myself again . My point here is that , as women , we go through such changes ! Sometimes it's really hard for anyone , man or woman , to understand unless they have been there . But there ARE answers and there IS help . Always .
All my best to you -
Kate

Thank you Cathe, my family is my husband and kids and I don't have no body to talk, so this forum is my best friend, tank you and all the ladies for your time and advice.

 

[gettingfitmom]

This this was me at the beginning of the year. I finally took a friend's advice (after my husband telling me I wasn't fun anymore) and went to the Doctors. Had blood work done and hormone levels were VERY low and thyroid was high. Am in the process of leveling my levels out and feel so much better. Go and get checked out! Keep us posted! Good Luck

 

[Mariposa1973]

This this was me at the beginning of the year. I finally took a friend's advice (after my husband telling me I wasn't fun anymore) and went to the Doctors. Had blood work done and hormone levels were VERY low and thyroid was high. Am in the process of leveling my levels out and feel so much better. Go and get checked out! Keep us posted! Good Luck

Thank you, I will goin to the doc very soon, do you have medicine.

 

[Nanbo]

I wait for my period go away to make appoiment with my gy.

PLEASE GO NOW!!!!! DO NOT PUT THIS OFF ANOTHER DAY!!!!! You deserve some answers and to feel like yourself again!!!!!

 

[RapidBreath]

Thank you, I try to do the same, but my husband said I'm acting like crazy.

Sounds like you may have fibroid tumors, see your gynecologist for a work up and get checked for that. It could cause the bleeding, the lack of interest in sex, the depression, and the irritability that your husband is responding to. The rash from the sun is more like lupus. You can also get checked for that.Also, get checked for anemia (low iron.) because that can cause you to feel tired and since you are bleeding too much it is pretty likely that you are low on iron. But, you want to get checked before you take any because you want to get the right dosage.

Hugs. I hope that you feel better soon.

 

[Kate A .]

I wish you the best of luck - please let us know what the doctor says and how you're doing ! I was thinking some of this sounded like Thyroid , just like gettingfitmom said .

 

[gettingfitmom]

Sounds like you may have fibroid tumors, see your gynecologist for a work up and get checked for that. It could cause the bleeding, the lack of interest in sex, the depression, and the irritability that your husband is responding to. The rash from the sun is more like lupus. You can also get checked for that.Also, get checked for anemia (low iron.) because that can cause you to feel tired and since you are bleeding too much it is pretty likely that you are low on iron. But, you want to get checked before you take any because you want to get the right dosage.

Hugs. I hope that you feel better soon.

I just had a golf ball size fibroid cyst removed from my uterus last week. Pap smear was abnormal...had fibroid sent for tests...waiting to hear. Hope this is the answer to my heavy periods.

 

[Nanbo]

I just had a golf ball size fibroid cyst removed from my uterus last week. Pap smear was abnormal...had fibroid sent for tests...waiting to hear. Hope this is the answer to my heavy periods.

Oh my goodness! I hope things improve for you from here on out! Sending you an {{{e-hug}}}}!!!

 

[gettingfitmom]

Thank you, I will goin to the doc very soon, do you have medicine.

My doctor has me on dietary supplements thru Orenda: Orenda Immune capsules, O-Tropin spray (you spray under the tongue) and Oki Aronia juice blend. Am on 3rd month and do notice a difference in energy and sleep. This doctor also prescribes bio-identical hormone replacement cream. Waiting on blood work results to see if the supplements changed my levels. I'll let you know!

 

[Mariposa1973]

Hi, I went to my GYN this week she did à biopsia and blood test, and I do have appoiment to do a ultrasound next week I hope they found the razon.