@ * Tuesday, a Terrific Day to MELT! @ *

[tneah]

Crap, I am all teary-eyed. You all are right of course. Sheesh, just when I was getting all happy inside with my "balanced" eating, enjoying my wine and exercising my arse off...I think that is what threw me...it was like, "okay, now that I am finally starting to feel good, I must be doing everything wrong because Mitch thinks I look bulky and eat too much". You know what I mean.
This too shall pass, and one big old ((HUG)) for all you wise, wise women, gosh I love you guys thanks for putting it into the proper perspective.

So my ipod went kaput today, but I finished itrain 60 minutes, number 9! Wow. Its a fast runners dream, I even "ran" a bit, if you like fast and flat, this is the one. I also did a light arms workout...yeah, light. As in 25 reps, only two exercises for each, biceps and triceps...Zzzzzz. Actually it was fine. Oh, I sorta played around with the kettleball workout, that Goddess one? Guess what? There isn't any music at all, no background noise except the gals breathing which was a little disconcerting to say the least....

BG, am lovin' that word "TARD". As in "tired?" Feeling pooped huh? Me too. *passes a cup of joe* cheers! Maybe this will help. I am gonna nap this afternoon I think...or at least try. Thanks for your words of wisdom chica, I really appreciate you.

Kristi, your workouts make me tired! You and that Allison boy, you all are incredible, actually you all are! Thanks for your sage advice, 19 years is a long time, so I am listening!

Shannon, I can totally see you buzzing around in a Prius or other eco-friendly car! So cute!

Leanne, have a wonderful time celebrating today! I am counting the minutes...

I just cleaned the boat again, you have to do this more often since its a smaller space and with Georgie, well, all that black hair is gross.

Talk to you guys later...

 

[lainiefig]

Hey y'all. I did Slo-Mo Back & Shoulders today. I managed to do it before Ewan’s nap and the boys behaved themselves well enough. Isaac and I are watching an episode of Arrested Development on DVD (hope it’s o.k. for a kid to watch—I don’t think he gets the more grown-up jokes). I’m a little worried because he just said “She’s crazy like you,” referring to the old mom on the show. Huh.

We went to the mall today and I returned a top to ATLoft and ended up getting two other tops—both halters now that I have the right bra. One was in fact one I’d returned before. I might wear that one during the RT, actually. Then I got home and got a dress I’d ordered from ATL, but I’m going to have to return it as I don’t like how it fits. Ugh. I wish I’d waited until that came before I went to the store to return the other thing. Maybe I’ll just send this one back in the mail or something. Anyway, I also stopped by the mall P.O. (I love that my mall has a P.O. and gives me an extra excuse to go to the mall) to mail a baby gift. Then we went to Target and I got Ewan his new fat undies. He’ll be 3 in a couple weeks but I had to get him some 4T underpants—hope they’ll be big enough. I also got myself a couple pairs of workout shorts (but only to wear in the privacy of my own—my legs are fat and white for shorts) and got Ewan a couple birthday gifts.

Shelley, how are you feeling today? ((((HUGS)))) I’m jealous that Tneah and Leanne get to meet up, too. I wish some of you were closer to me.

Peggie, good luck with the workout later today.

Deb, is iron deficiency the same as being anemic, because I’m not anemic—have been tested for that. So why are you so tired? Having trouble sleeping?

Robin, I’m bummed that you can’t get on the forum at work. Maybe you can pop in and at least say hi after work while the forums are down?

Shannon, yay for the new bras! A good bra can make a huge difference—can even make you look better in your clothes (as I discovered with the halter bra).

Kristi, ouch! Great workout today! My DH has also had frustrations with Vista (he just got a new work laptop and it is his first experience with Vista).

Breckie, I’d guess you aren’t actually lazy but just really needed some rest. Take it when you can get it, girlfriend. Yeah, I can wear lipstick a little better. I haven’t had any trouble with my lips sticking to my braces at all, but my lips aren’t that near my braces, if that makes sense. My teeth are further in above and below the lips—when I smile I rarely show teeth (partially because I hide my teeth and partially it’s just a natural thing. I had more problems with just the pain of putting something on my lips when my braces were new, and it was painful trying to rub my lips together after putting on lipstick.

Leanne, enjoy DH’s bday dinner! I am planning KPC tomorrow myself—I think it’s my favorite Cathe kickboxing workout. Yeah, I use a heart rate monitor—nothing fancy, just a Polar F4. I’ve thought about upgrading recently to one with more bells and whistles, though. It’s much better on my WW plan, because when you enter the time and activity on WW’s website, it always gives you a different number (usually higher than the HRM) so I think the HRM helps me have more realistic numbers. I even wear it when I do weight workouts, though sometimes it sucks that you work so hard lifting weights but don’t get many calories burned—I have to remind myself that the weights are really good for weight loss even if they don’t give me high HRM numbers. Hope that makes sense.

Allie, enjoy your special Jim time tonight.

Tneah, sometimes I think our DHs are a lot alike. My DH is wonderful and sweet most of the time, but sometimes he says things that are too critical and nitpicky. I tell him sometimes he is too honest. He really is—dude does not know how to lie even if it will make me feel better. Anyway, I’m sorry he was rough on you and I’m sure he knows how beautiful you are. Maybe it is his silly man way to tell you not to be so obsessive and to be more natural in taking care of yourself (even if it actually drives you to be more obsessive that he said it). (((HUGS))) from me to you, chica. And personally I wish I looked more like you, but I haven’t got your discipline, I’m afraid. The only time I look “bulky” it’s just fat.

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[crazystepr]

Good evening.

Tneah--hugs to you my darling. I completely understand how you feel. Mitch definetely owes you an apology. All men are like that. Sucky communicators. WHY?!!???!??! You are gorgeous, strong, healthy and kind. Stop feeling so bad about yourself, missy! That's an order.

Lainie--great job getting in your workout! It must be so hard to juggle working out when you have kids all over you. I'm so glad I don't...

BG--you're right. "Drugged" is exactly the way I feel. I am so, so tired and in a total haze because of it. I feel like someone tied a billion pounds of weight on my back. Ugh.

Kristi--yes, Jim works out. He runs in the morning and lifts in the afternoon. He also plays fast pitch softball. But he's got a little meat on him which I absolutely love. I can't describe it. He's just really tall and solid. I am just crazy about him. Can ya tell?

Shell-Bell--how's your day going, peanut? It's interesting how you prefer circuits to heavy lifting. I can't imagine you being "bulky". I love the picture you posted once on the OD of your back after doing P90X. You're one SEXAY lady.

Shannon--good luck with the car search! It's so exciting that you found a dealer that has what you want! I'm crossing all my fingers and toes that this is the one!

***Please excuse this interruption...my cat is crawling all over the keyboard. It's hysterical. You may now go back to your regularly scheduled post-reading***

Leanne--I don't think I could be more jealous of your meeting with Tneah tomorrow! NO FAIR! I hope you guys have the absolute time of your lives. And Happy Happy Birthday to Mr. Leanne!! YAY! Enjoy your chinese and cake. A coworker brought in the most scrumptious orange cake today for another coworker's birthday. And I had a HUGE slice. It was so good. I can't even tell you. Dang, I wish I had another piece right now....

Robin--your cats are peeing everywhere?!?!? I'm sorry. Tell me more. I think I may have missed something. How was work today, dahling?

Peggie--did you get that workout in, girlie? If not, don't stress about it, k?

I don't think I'm going to have time to workout tonight. I'm headed to Jim's in just a few minutes. Plus I'm just so tired I can barely keep my eyes open. To be honest, I'd like to just stay home tonight and go to bed early. But I want to see Jim so bad! Ah, decisions decisions...

Thinking of you all and I hope you have a wonderful evening! (And sorry if I missed anyone...!!)

Allison

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[buffettgirl]

Dang! I had a nice long reply to everyone ready to post at work and I lost it. Then it was time to go home. Then it was time to Tracey's HIS2. (Hi Allie!) Then it was time to start dinner. I'm going to try to get some personals done before the charcoal is ready for the chops.

Tneah, what everyone else said. Hugs, hugs and more hugs. I can't add much to what has already been posted. I think most of us understand. If we didn't all have body image issues, we wouldn't be here, would we? You are beautiful and strong. I don't think Mitch realizes how hurtful his comments can be. More hugs.

Leanne, yes, please, hug Tneah hard for me too. Have a wonderful time tonight with the family and tomorrow with your melty sistah.

Lainie, be sure that I'll be on your forum first thing in the morning and right after work.

BG, pleading insanity wouldn't work. They all think I'm crazy already.

Kristi, we have hardwood in the rest of the house and it's really not hard to care for. We put on a addition about 18 years ago and it's all carpet. We couldn't afford hardwood at the time. I'm going to look into the laminate. We have friends with laminate and I thought it was hardwook when I first saw it.

Shelley, I'm happy to see you crawl out of your pit to help Tneah. And I can't imagine you ever being less then feminine.

Shannon, high five on the car shopping. I hope it works out for you.

Peggie, did you get your workout done?

What happened to Linda?

Kara, we miss you.

Gotta run. Later sweetie poo-poo pies.

 

[tneah]

Alli, go to the boy tonight...You will have time enough to rest after the intial "crazy love" gives way to a more sane one...no! I am not being wet blankie at all, I am just a little envious of that beginning passion deal that happens...I am so happy for you chica!:7

Lainie, well both of our DH's watch Fox News right? They sound like they are indeed "cut from the same cloth". Probably would get on famously! Your workouts are sounding really great lately, proud of you for getting them in despite all the mommy stuff and other stuff you do, I seriously do not know how you mom's do it? Fun clothes, glad you re-bought the halters, halters almost always flatter, the right bra is essential, so glad you got 'em covered in the right one.

Robin, I lose posts all the time, if I go back to see what's going on with someone, "poof" there goes my post. My memory isn't very good, which is why I suck at personals,,,Leanne remembers everything though doesn't she? Thanks for your hugs darlin', I appreciate it, thanks for letting me be my crazy arse self.:+

Linda,, already you are gone??Please come back, I feel "used" just kidding!!:7

Its time for a little tiny late afternoon nappy I think, all that emotional energy stress just sorta hit, and I want to be my normal fabulous self for Leanne tomorrow!:7 We will take pics!

 

[LeanneM]

Hey all!

So some REALLY GOOD news . . . BIL got a temp position and starts tomorrow morning! Woo hoo! Hopefully it'll work out and he can soon get an apartment of his own. Of course, he's been around all day today . . . I was hoping that he'd at least go get his brother a b-day present so I could give the hubby a b-day present, too! }( Now their mom just called and she'll be here in a few minutes to go to dinner with us. I got DH a Zune (a new mp3 player) for his b-day, so he's been messing around with it and getting it set up, and I've just been reading on the couch with him most of the day. I bought Mike some Ben & Jerry's the other day for his b-day, so I'm safe from cake.

Tneah -- I'm just going to have to {{{HUG}}} you non-stop tomorrow with all those hugs folks are sending to me to pass on to you! Seriously, we'll have to vent about how awful those DH's can be! You look fabulous, and it really is just so wonderful that you're enjoying treats like wine more and really finding some good balance. Please, please don't let those comments throw you off! You look gorgeous!! I'm SOOOO excited about tomorrow! Of course, I'm trying not to think about being nervous at all. I'm also worried that I'll start crying when I see beautiful, gorgeous you in person! You're such an amazing woman! ;-) Oh, I heard that that KB workout didn't have music, and wasn't sure about it. Hope you get a nice nap in today!!

Shelley -- I can't imagine you looking bulky either! That photo of your back that Allie referred to is just awesome -- I wish I had that kind of definition!

Allie -- Is the kitty still on the keyboard? That is so cute! Jim looks like he works out. Have fun tonight, and don't stress it if you need to come home early to get some rest!

Shannon -- Good luck on the car shopping! Keeping my fingers crossed for you!

Robin -- Oh, that's awful about losing your long post! I love the "sweetie poo poo pies"! Too cute!

Kristi -- Sounds like you had a killer workout today! WTG! The thought of it sounds exhausting!!

BG -- Yes, I'm so excited to meet Tneah!! Hooray! How has work been today? Any weird doctors on the van? Hope not! Are you still thinking about doing the program with Mr. Trainer?

Lainie -- Oh, how cute that Ewan got some big boy undies. Too cute! I love the idea of the halter tops you got, and I'm sure that that dress looks FAB on you! Exactly about the weight lifting and calories: those workouts might not burn as much, but their overall benefits are so good for weight loss!

I probably won't get a chance to check back in tonight, but I'll see all you wonderful ladies in the morning! Love and hugs to all!:*

 

[plarsen]

Hey kittens - Holy crap a lot has been going on.

First of all the reason I didn't get up at 5 to work out because I got woke up at 3 to one of our cats hacking up hair balls all over our bed and the light, light colored carpet (which I hate by the way) in our bedroom. So when the alarm went off, it was like whatever. So anyway I came home at lunch and did by SH back and biceps. Had jello arms when I went back to work. So I did not get my Coach Sean fix for the day. Oh well, I will survive.

Allie - You and Jim sound like the perfect couple. What does he do for a job? And what are you going to school for?

Tneah - Beautiful, Strong, Sexy, Fit, Kind, Gentle, Funny, Generous, Healthy. Just a few words to describe one very special kitten. Don't take it to heart. As the saying goes, You only hurt the one you love. Most men feel it is okay to do that because they love you so much and don't think of it as hurting you, although it really does. As someone who struggles with body image like I do, it is not easy to let it roll off your back. Keep you chin up lady and have a wonderful day with Leanne. You guys better take pictures.

Kristi - Great workout. Isn't it nice when you have unlimited time to do whatever workout you want.

Lanie - I am dying laughing about the fat underpants. Kids that age are soooo cute when they start wearing underwear. And you know what the sizes are never right anyway. I bet you look smokin' in that halter top. Can't wait to meet you in August.

Shannon - where did you get your bras? I have a hell of a time finding decent ones. I usually get them at VS,but lately nothing seems to fit right. Good luck with finding a car.

Breckie - Hey, what's up? That website and his books are amazing. I won't push it on anybody though. I respect everyone's opinions.

Robin - Hope you got your workout in.

Shelley - Hey girl, what's happening today?

Deb - Hey woman.

Hope I didn't forget anyone. Lots of action going on today.