I absolutely reccommend Max Intensity Strength as a starter workout for learning correct form on weight training. The pace is not too quick, it's a total body workout, there is a wide range of exercises to learn, and it will teach you the basics.
After that, get the Pyramids for strength and busting through a plateau, and the CTX Leaner legs & Upper body split: both of these combos are awesome and have done great things for me as an uper body weakling!
Then, when you are ready, invest in the Slow and heavy series to train intensely individual muscle groups.
Good luck
Clare