Ami,
No words can describe the loss a mother feels when she loses her baby. Yes, it was a baby, no matter how far along you are that is a baby. We all experience hopes and dreams when we become pregnant. We do not know why God allows things like this to happen. But I can tell you once I experienced my first miscarriage I never again took a pregnancy or a baby for granted. I would worry - I had my first miscarriage at 16 weeks, I had already heard the heartbeat through the abdomen at 11 weeks and 15 weeks then I spotted a little dark blood thats all I went into the doctor and there was no heartbeat, the ultrasound showed the baby died just a few days before. The other ones I had were at 6 or 7 weeks. They found that I needed progesterone (that maintains for uterine lining), so I had progesterone for the next three pregnancies. This last miscarriage progesterone didn't help. Next time you get pregnant get blood work right away. I will be praying for you Ami you are young yet!
God Bless, Cheryl