So, I'm hearing that you think that tax money shouldn't go to fund social programs -- and that's your opinion. But there was something that you said before that I wanted to some clarification. I think you mentioned something about getting taxed 40% of your taxes and how it has gotten worse. I do think its going to get worse given the current financial crisis for sure. But at least since 2000, there has been a reduction across all the tax brackets. In fact, it hasn't been as high 40% since the mid-80s. In fact, below are the US Tax Bracket*:
And you said your husband owns a business, I think? There should be several deductions you should be able to take to alleviate your tax burden to bring it effectively MUCH lower than than even 30% all within the letter of the law. If you really are paying so much, you should really switch your tax preparer and even review previous years' returns to see what money you could possibly get back. And if you do it by yourself, you may want to go to a professional group to review your returns because no one should be paying that high amount in the current system.
Text from Wikipedia:*An individual pays tax at a given bracket only for each dollar within that bracket's range. For example, a single taxpayer who earned $10,000 in 2007 would be taxed 10% of each dollar earned from the 1st dollar to the 7,825th dollar (10% × $7,825 = $782.50), then 15% of each dollar earned from the 7,826th dollar to the 10,000th dollar (15% × $2,175 = $326.25), for a total of $1,108.75. Notice this amount ($1,108.75) is lower than if the individual had been taxed at 15% on the full $10,000 (for a tax of $1,500). This is because the individual's marginal rate (the percentage tax on the last dollar earned, here 15%) has no effect on the income taxed at a lower bracket (here the first $7,825 of income taxed at 10%). This ensures that every rise in a person's pre-tax salary results in an increase of their after-tax salary.