Penny,
So sorry!!! I understand what your husband is feeling. I know in my head we couldn't have helped Spyro, but in my heart its otherwise. Its not his fault and he didn't do anything wrong. I feel like a bad doggie mom because we couldn't fix him, but some things aren't fixable. {{{HUGS}}} to you and you're family. Everyone one this board is great for support, but email me if you want to "talk" about it otherwise.
Nan