Pregnancy and New Mommies Nov1 (James is next)

Susan, I must have missed something -- I didn't realize you were having any problems. I guess this is related to pregnancy/delivery? Glad you're getting a second opinion -- feeling like your bladder is falling out is clearly no way to live.

Priscilla, your feelings are completely normal. You want your body back -- to sleep on your back or stomach, to eat without worrying if it's safe, to actually feel your lungs fill with air when you inhale! The last few weeks feel like an eternity. With this pregnancy, I was hoping hoping hoping that nature would take its course during week 37 or 38! I *did* allow my doc to get my labor started this time during the middle of week 39. He broke my water and sent me to the hospital. Since Drew was born with the cord around his neck twice (which none of us knew), I'm glad I did it. I'm a big believer in going with your gut. ;)

Made the most outstanding French onion soup today. Hands down the best I've ever made.



Henri's French Onion Soup

(Be patient while caramelizing the onions; the process takes two hours but the resulting soup is well worth the effort).

3 pounds yellow onions
3 tablespoons unsalted butter (I used 2 TBSP olive oil)
1/2 teaspoon table salt, plus *more as needed*
1 pinch sugar
8 cups water, plus *more as needed* (I used 6 cups water, 2 cups beef broth)
1 tablespoon all-purpose flour
1 sprig fresh thyme leaves (used 1/2-3/4 tsp dried thyme leaves)
1/4 cup dry white wine
1 baguette, crusty
8 ounces Gruyère cheese, grated

Cut the tips off the onions and slice them in half lengthwise pole to pole. Peel off the outer layer of the skin and cut each half in half lengthwise. Slice each quarter crsswise in 1/8th inch slices. As you get close to the root, flip each piece onto the other flat side and continue slicing. Melt butter in a large Dutch oven or soup pot over medium heat. Once it has stopped foaming add the onions, 1/2 teaspoon salt, and sugar. Toss to evenly coat. Cover and cook for 10 minutes. Remove cover, and cook, stirring frequently until the onions begin to brown lightly, about 90 minutes longer. Now stir every 5 minutes and add a couple of tablespoons of water whenever the bottom of the pan crusts over with dark fond. Continue to cook as directed until the onions are and even dark walnut color, an additional 45 minutes longer. (Cooking times are just approximate.)

Add the flour and stir for two minutes. Add 8 cups water and the thyme to the onions and bring to a boil. Lower the heat to maintain a lively simmer and cook for 20 minutes. Add white wine and simmer 10 minutes longer. Taste for seasoning, adding salt as needed. Meanwhile, heat theoven to 325F and adjust a rack to the upper middle position. Cut the baguette into 3/4 inch slices and arrange on a single layer on a cookie sheet. Bake until the bread is dry, crisp, and very lightly colored at the edges, about 10 minutes. Remove bread slices and set aside.

Heat broiler and place 6 heatproof bowls on a baking sheet. Fill each bowl with about 2 cups of soup. Top each with two baguette slices and evenly distribute grated cheese over the bread. Broil until well-browned and bubbly, about 10 minutes. Cool for five minutes before serving.
 
Morning ladies!
Last night was much better. Put Kara down at 830 she got up at 11, 2 and 4.. could of been worse.
Melanie-I hope your new meds didnt keep you up too much last night!! And ouch on all the fingerpricks. You have been through so much...and worked soooo hard to have these girls...you should be proud of yourself....we all are!
Allison-I love soup and will for sure be trying your recipe! yum!!! Yes, the bladder issue if from delivery. There has got to be something I can do about it. Hope you had a good night with Drew.
Jen-are you still with us?? Did you get that enama??
Pricialla-hey girl! your feelings are totally normal...you are soo excited to meet your boy!! I think most dr's induce at 39 weeks...I know my dr was all for it...Ijust happened to go into labor. Hang in there..your wee one will be here soon! Your mom understands your frustration Im sure.
Kara's 3 week check up is this morning at 10..then I plan to read. I am almost done with all this reading!!!! then just to study for finals which I can take anytime up until Dec 10.
I still have not worked out. Im using all my free time to read and I was afraid to with my bladder falling out and all..HA. Im ready though!
Ok going to drink my 1 cup of coffee with dh. bbl
Morning waves to everyon!!!
 
Yes, unfortunately I am still here. Didn't think I would be last night with all the cxs I was having but they finally eased off and I fell asleep. Feel pretty crappy again today. I just finished some egg beaters and eng muffin and I feel nauseous. Have my dr's appt at 920a so we will see....

Allison- Yum on the soup!

Susan- Glad Kara had a better night (and you too!) No didn't get the enema yet but I just told DH maybe we should get one on the way home from the drs. I think a second opinion is a good idea just to be sure. You know your body best.

Priscila- I'm sorry you aren't feeling well. Like Allison said, its normal. I'm feeling pretty crappy and ready to be "done" myself. It can happen at any point.

I'll check back after drs appt and let you know what he says! Fingers crossed that we can get things going!
 
Well, I'm as crabby as expected, if not worse than expected. I"m not going to post my updates here though, b/c I don't want to be a downer and it just seems like it's one thing after another & I'm having trouble just dealing with my emotions & suspect I will for at least for another 5 days. If you're interested in keeping up, I post daily medical updates at: https://www.carepages.com/carepages/monnietwins

I want this to remain a positive outlet........So I'm going to focus on how all YA"LL girls are doing!!!

Kara has 3 week check up today? How is her face rash? Susan, when is your next consult?

Jen, I hope that you are showing some effacement & dialation.

Waves to all the mommies!!!
 
Melanie-I have tried to log onto your carepages and its saying I need a password etc. Yep, 3 week check up..time flies doesnt it! Im not sure about my next dr. Should I go see and OB or a Urologist?? Maybe an OB first and he/she can tell me where to go from there. I have been doing so many kagels my rear is sore! And Mel-you know you can vent here bad or good anytime
Jen-looking forward to you update!
 
Susan, I'd recommend seeing a urologist....but it's up to you.

The carepages does require you to register, e-mail, dob & a password. It should be pretty painless. ;)
 
Hey ladies! Well I was 3 cm....that's it. But he went ahead and stripped my membranes and now I am really crampy with alot of backache. Not sure if I want to go into work. Might just stay home and rest just in case something happens.

I'm sorry you are in a funk Mel. Please feel free to vent here, that is what we are all here for...each other.

I'll check back later with ya'll.
 
Well.......at least you're at a 3cm!!!! That's great, Jen!! Jadon came a few days after my ob/gyn stripped my membranes......but it didn't work when they stripped Justin's membranes. I think it's dependent on "how ripe" you are to begin with. :)
 
Hey!
Jen-3 is better than 0!! It will happen!
Back from Kara's appt. She was 9.1 pounds (birth weight was 7.5) and everything looked great!
I love this new dr! He's a new family prac here at the new healthplex associated with our hospital. I asked him about my bladder and he said he would give it a few weeks to see if it improved that I DID just have a baby 3 weeks ago. So a-kageling I will go! Actually it does feel a tad better even today..I think.
The dr's wife is preg with their 4th child and he was crazy about my Moby wrap and couldnt wait to tell his wife about it.
Gonna go eat some lunch..Kara fell asleep on the way home and is still snoozing....better eat while I can!
bbl
 
Bow down to the Kegel!! Hope that will help, Susan. Glad you love the new doctor. Sounds like Kara is doing well :)

Melanie, sorry today didn't bring the news you were hoping for. I hope the meds and steroids will create the desired effect soon.

Jen, 3 cm is a great start! I went from 0 in week 38 to 3cm in week 39. Any day!!

I feel like a horrible mommy. Seems poor little Drew has been victimized by me, or rather by my hair. DH noticed he had what is called a toe tourniquet; my hair wrapped around his toe so tightly it causes pain, discoloration, and circulation problems. We thought we got it all last night, but we just realized there was still a piece wrapped around. I've been massaging it, and I hope that's it. :(

It's beautiful in Philly today. Took Ella to the park for a good 2-1/2 hours of play. She conked out on the way home and is still asleep. :)
 
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Allison, oddly enough my kids have had hair wrapped around weird things (including toes). I've had a piece of hair wrapped around at least two of my boys' penises. When I mentioned to to pediatrician she said it's fairly common. Strange to me.....but common. LOL
 
Morning ladies! I'm still here and no action! Had cramping and backache yesterday and slept like a log! Oh and started losing some of my mucus plug. Dr says he has a 50% success rate of sending women into labor within 48 hrs but so far its almost been 24 and nothing. So we will see.... but I'm not holding my breath. I have another dr's appt on Monday (my due date) and if nothing is happening by then, he said we can induce. So there is a light at the end of the tunnel. :)

Allison- I'm sorry about Drew's toe. Hopefully your massage helped his toe to feel better. I wish the weather was much cooler here. It has cooled off some but slight humidity still lingers.

Susan- Yay for the dr and the reassurance! I can't believe Kara is 9lbs already! She still looks so tiny!

Hi Melanie! Hope you are hanging in there and will keep visiting with us! I hope you have a good day today, mentally and physically.
 
Jen,...James is ripe!! Won't be long now! Just a partial mucuous plug, huh? How do you know it was partial? Got a pic for us? ;)

Susan, 9lbs is big. You must have good num-nums. :D

No big changes here on my side. 16 days to goal delivery....but who's counting?
 
Mel- I am half tempted to send you a pic! It pieces and lots of discharge too! I never thought I would be excited about discharge again since TTC!

One of the ladies in my due date club on another forum was induced this AM and she keeps texting me her updates! It's so exciting for me right now! I am living vicariously through her. She was actually due one day after me but because of GD and the baby's heart skipping beats, her dr wanted to induce. She is already 8 cm and just started all this around 7 am!

Going to lunch with DH and walking some more. Still feel pretty good, just lots of pressure in va ja ja area and some mild back pain.

Waves to all!
 
Morning Ladies
Trying to get my last bit of Sociology read.
Melanie-my num nums are fab! Why do you think Haley nursed for 3 years:eek:
Jen-James is gearing up girl!
Hate to cut this short...Kara is squirmy and I know will be up any second and I have lots of reading to do. bbl
 
Scheduled C-Section is Wednesday, November 11th. I'll be 34 weeks 6 days......a great time to deliver. :)

SO GET MOVING JAMES!!!!!
 
Morning!
Melanie-how exciting!! I cannot believe your day is almost here! IHope you are feeling good and got some sleep!
Jen-you gonna let 2 girlies beat your boy??? Come on James!!!
Kara was wide awake from 1-230 last night, but I really cant complain..she is sooo darn sweet!!! She is starting to smile and its just the cutest thing! She is usally up for a couple hours after dinner time..but last night she wouldnt wake up for anything so I knew it was gonna be a long night...but all in all wasnt too bad. Haley got in bed with us at 3..so we had a bed full!
Haley is out of school for fall break the rest of the week....I think we may do a littel shopping. Dh's b-day is in a couple weeks....but I really hate getting Kara out so Im not sure what we'll do.
I really should still be in bed...but come 5 I am ready to get up and drink coffee with dh. I will try and get a nap in today.
Waves to everyone...bbl
 
Oooh Susan! I'm tellin James! Them are fighting words! ;)

Melanie- So after all this time, are you ready to meet your beautiful princesses?

Slept pretty good again. I can't believe how much sleep I have been getting. Everyone tells me that these last weeks are hard but not for this tired ol body, I guess. Still having lots of discharge which makes me feel like I am leaking. James has definitely burrowed lower because the front of my va jaja feels like it's ripping in two. That's a good sign right? I have a ton of front pressure too but still no contractions.

Oh Susan, Dh bought the enema so I may try that soon. Ummm....did you administer by yourself or did DH assist? I'm wondering how that works..... ;)

Hi to all!
 

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