Well I tell my dh I don't want to be one of the many widows looking for my retirement hook-up he needs to keep healthy LOL
Well I am 60 and I am a widow, as I mentioned in a previous post. When my DH first passed, I thought I would never, ever look at another man. He was the ultimate soul mate. We were together almost 40 years. I have to tell you, it has been quite an education about what is left out there in the man availability world. I am still not really wanting to find anyone else, as I am just fine being by myself.... but I find myself wondering how it's going to feel being alone for the next 25 or 30 years, which is probably how long I'll be around.
My first criteria for a possible mate would be... can you run 5 miles easily? Can you complete a high intensity interval class with me? You must be fit, you must eat healthy... otherwise I'm not interested. The men in my age group are a sad lot. Most are overweight and sedentary. NO thank you!